"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJ/PUA Movies to Watch (Collection)

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Hey guys, I compiled a list from this forum and movies I have seen for the best "PUA-type" movies to watch - feel free to add any!

Hitch
Top Gun
Starwars with Han Solo
Cruel Intentions
Eyes Wide Shut
Swingers
Tao of Steve
Wedding Crashers
Don Juan DeMarco
The Witches of Eastwick
Roger Dodger
Closer
Alfie
The Girl Next Door
Van Wilder
Bullitt (for frame control example)
The Apartment (Fred McMurray)
The Killing (Sterling Hayden)
American Pimp
Valmont
Dangerous Liaison
Meet Joe Black
Casino
Fall
Whipped
Buffalo '66
Gone with the Wind
A Street Car Named Desire
James Bond movies
French Kiss
Scent of a Woman
Buying the Cow
Tomcats
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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tv shows you can net search to view

THE PICKUP ARTIST
STRAIGHT EYE FOR THE QUEER GUY
MANSHOW
THE BATCHELOR
WHO WANTS TO MARRY A MILLIONAIRE
ELIMIDATE
MUST LOVE KIDS
CANT GET A DATE....YES U CAN
SEX IN THE CITY
BEAUTY AND THE GEEK
DESPRET HOUSEWIVES
40 YEAR OLD VIRGIN
CONFESSIONS OF A MATCH MAKER
I LOVE NEWYORK
THE DATING GAME
LOVE CONNECTION
BLIND DATE
 

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What happened with groundhog day? On that part I agree with pook is that it is a perfect example of self improvement.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What about Magnolia?

Frank T.J. Mackey: Respect the ****! And tame the ****! Tame it! Take it on headfirst with the skills that I will teach you at work and say no! You will not control me! No! You will not take my soul! No! You will not win this game! Because it's a game, guys. You want to think it's not, huh? You want to think it's not? Go back to the schoolyard and you have that crush on big-titted Mary Jane. Respect the ****. You are embedding this thought. I am the one who's in charge. I am the one who says yes! No! Now! Here! Because it's universal, man. It is evolutional. It is anthropological. It is biological. It is animal. We... are... men!
 

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"The Big Sleep" with Humphrey Bogart. It's old (40's), but definitely check it out.

Here's a scene: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B2BU8-7kQLI

There are better scenes, but you get the point from this clip. Notice how he is cool through the whole thing and never acts submissively.

Bogey is the MAN:)
 

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The Matrix, 1984(if you didn't read the book) Gattica, The Count of Monte Cristo, and Groundhog day. That's all the movies you need to watch.
 

War Against Betaism

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How could I forget The Count of Monte Cristo. I've seen the remake and it is honestly the best movie I've ever seen, and I did see the Shawshank Redemption.
 

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John Tucker Must Die and Mean Girls....... honestly, in JTMD (Too long to type it again lol) u get some good insights on both female psychology, alpha male psychology, and how women think male psychology works.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Iron Maiden - Live after death

I kid!

American Gangster.
 

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Fight Club
Revolver

Meatballs 3 (the whole movie is about a porn star's ghost trying to get a nerd laid!)

Hardbodies (young dudes getting paid to get older guys laid) lol

The Maltese Falcon (Bogey)

The Birds (check out the scene with the guy picking up the woman in the pet store, CLASSIC c+f I'm SERIOUS)

These 3 Vin Diesel Movies:

Fast and the Furious
Boiler Room
Knockaround Guys

Point Break (if you've seen it, you know what I mean)

Forrest Gump (sure he gets treated like crap by Jenny most of the movie but he makes a good life for himself and in the end, she comes to him)

The Rock (favorite line by Sean Connery's character: "losers always whine about doing their best, winners go home and fvck the prom queen")
 
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