"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJ/PUA Movies to Watch (Collection)

Axcell

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Hey guys, I compiled a list from this forum and movies I have seen for the best "PUA-type" movies to watch - feel free to add any!

Hitch
Top Gun
Starwars with Han Solo
Cruel Intentions
Eyes Wide Shut
Swingers
Tao of Steve
Wedding Crashers
Don Juan DeMarco
The Witches of Eastwick
Roger Dodger
Closer
Alfie
The Girl Next Door
Van Wilder
Bullitt (for frame control example)
The Apartment (Fred McMurray)
The Killing (Sterling Hayden)
American Pimp
Valmont
Dangerous Liaison
Meet Joe Black
Casino
Fall
Whipped
Buffalo '66
Gone with the Wind
A Street Car Named Desire
James Bond movies
French Kiss
Scent of a Woman
Buying the Cow
Tomcats
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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COD

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tv shows you can net search to view

THE PICKUP ARTIST
STRAIGHT EYE FOR THE QUEER GUY
MANSHOW
THE BATCHELOR
WHO WANTS TO MARRY A MILLIONAIRE
ELIMIDATE
MUST LOVE KIDS
CANT GET A DATE....YES U CAN
SEX IN THE CITY
BEAUTY AND THE GEEK
DESPRET HOUSEWIVES
40 YEAR OLD VIRGIN
CONFESSIONS OF A MATCH MAKER
I LOVE NEWYORK
THE DATING GAME
LOVE CONNECTION
BLIND DATE
 

Reborn

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What happened with groundhog day? On that part I agree with pook is that it is a perfect example of self improvement.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What about Magnolia?

Frank T.J. Mackey: Respect the ****! And tame the ****! Tame it! Take it on headfirst with the skills that I will teach you at work and say no! You will not control me! No! You will not take my soul! No! You will not win this game! Because it's a game, guys. You want to think it's not, huh? You want to think it's not? Go back to the schoolyard and you have that crush on big-titted Mary Jane. Respect the ****. You are embedding this thought. I am the one who's in charge. I am the one who says yes! No! Now! Here! Because it's universal, man. It is evolutional. It is anthropological. It is biological. It is animal. We... are... men!
 

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"The Big Sleep" with Humphrey Bogart. It's old (40's), but definitely check it out.

Here's a scene: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B2BU8-7kQLI

There are better scenes, but you get the point from this clip. Notice how he is cool through the whole thing and never acts submissively.

Bogey is the MAN:)
 

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The Matrix, 1984(if you didn't read the book) Gattica, The Count of Monte Cristo, and Groundhog day. That's all the movies you need to watch.
 

War Against Betaism

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How could I forget The Count of Monte Cristo. I've seen the remake and it is honestly the best movie I've ever seen, and I did see the Shawshank Redemption.
 

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John Tucker Must Die and Mean Girls....... honestly, in JTMD (Too long to type it again lol) u get some good insights on both female psychology, alpha male psychology, and how women think male psychology works.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Iron Maiden - Live after death

I kid!

American Gangster.
 

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Fight Club
Revolver

Meatballs 3 (the whole movie is about a porn star's ghost trying to get a nerd laid!)

Hardbodies (young dudes getting paid to get older guys laid) lol

The Maltese Falcon (Bogey)

The Birds (check out the scene with the guy picking up the woman in the pet store, CLASSIC c+f I'm SERIOUS)

These 3 Vin Diesel Movies:

Fast and the Furious
Boiler Room
Knockaround Guys

Point Break (if you've seen it, you know what I mean)

Forrest Gump (sure he gets treated like crap by Jenny most of the movie but he makes a good life for himself and in the end, she comes to him)

The Rock (favorite line by Sean Connery's character: "losers always whine about doing their best, winners go home and fvck the prom queen")
 
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