Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
DJ Population Increase?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
alphawolfx
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maybe 50% of guys become DJ's meaning better with women
let's say about half of THAT become better than others (25% of total)
and another half of those become true PUAs (12.5% total)
and of those, about half have either looks, money or social proof, or a good angle to get into girls pants - THAT's STILL ONLY 6% of the entire guy population...
so no need to worry
Men ARE becoming more aware on how to "deal" with woman in the days of today, yes, but as far as 50% of them men knowing about DJ'ing etc, well, i DOUGHT that that will happen in my lifetime, so i dont really care, NOR does it bother me, because even if other guys DO kow about Don Juan etc, i'll STILL be better than them, and i'll still 0wn wherever i go <--- thats the attitude u ALSO need to have, and all will be good
Laterz...
Hell, I've tried to get 3 of my closest friends to listen to David DeAngelo and they refused to listen to it. I now know it's better to keep this stuff to myself and let all the other guys keep failing with women.
FM 3321: u are right... most guys DO refuse to accept the information.. and when i mention "Don Juan" etc, they tend to tease and laugh at me....... untill when we go partying togeather and i get with several woman and leave them going home with NOTHING.... thats when the laughing and teasing stops, and them asking me for advice stops
... So in this case, its a case of "I'll only believe it if i see it"... so, if they dont want to listen to you, then SHOW them that you are NOT just talking sh!t, and prove to them that DJ etc really DOES work Laterz...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
It's like the information for people to be wealthy is freely available, but do any more people bother to use it?
Interesting that you brought up our media.
Today I was watching this show called "That's So Raven" with my little sister and in the show Raven's little brother who is like in middle school has like 5 girls in love with him wanting to be his Valentine. Well the girls all come over and Raven comes in the room, screws up her little brothers game and tells him that he should only be in love with one girl and in other words, shouldn't have so many girls interested in him.
Nice message to send to boys growing up out there on a kids show. It seems like any show or movie like Shallow Hal discourages men from being men. Only movies like James Bond or other action movies encourage men to be the men that we were born to be.
Like I heard David Deangelo say, "there seems to be a conspiracy against men being successful with women." It's fukking pathetic but then again it's good for people that want to seek the real truth. I guess that's just life.
Alpine
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diablo
Master Don Juan
Most people will disregard it as pointless without even giving it any chance. The nature of life is that only a certain few are the fittest and the rest are betas. That won't change with any amount of DJ Bibles or David DeAngelos.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
diplomatic_lie
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Most guys DON'T know success is more than a bag of tricks.
DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
Will there be more DJs because of the internet? Yes, yes, yes. I wouldn't have found this little niche in society if it were not for the internet, so of course it will increase in time as communication becomes more advanced and a bigger play in people's lives. And more DJs is a good thing... it would simply mean more people are satisfied. Guys are more satisfied because they are getting more pleasure, and girls are more satisfied because they are getting more pleasure. This is a good thing, don't let anyone else tell you otherwise.
As of right now though, man's manliness is on a downward spiral as women and men now are starting to get on equal levels.
But maybe the movie Hitch can be used as an indicator? Haven't seen it so I don't know...
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.