"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ricky

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Actually at first I was so hateful towards women I thought that would be my angle. The only thing was I didn't feel like going out.

I'm just now feeling like going out and doing things.

I think I am going to claim I'm just looking for friends with these girls (that will be my angle)

BTW the last couple of days have made eye contact and hi's with at least 3 girls a day. No big deal but ok.

I need to start conversing again.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ok well it's back. I've done a bit of Djing

There might, I emphasis might even be a bit of a setup in the works with a girl at the work and her relative. I don't really care because this girl is moving soon too, but i got the feeling like it's a possibility during the introduction today.

And we all know setups aren't the best idea, but I just need to go out with another girl to get back on track.
 
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