"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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rapsta

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Ok thought I'd start a new thread with a more recreational topic :)
What do you people on this board actually work with?
I don't really know what I wanna do in the future
I thought I'd start a caféchain like starbucks.. but here in sweden.. or work with economy or something.. not really sure
but what are your guys' occupations?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think you'll find that the vast majority of the people on this board are students.

If you want to call a part-time job an occupation, then I'm a photographer at Glamour Shots (as of last week).

*edit: Forgot to add full-time college student.
 
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student, studying computer engineering..

i do part time factory work (8 hour shift once a week), fulltime during the school breaks.
 

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I'm a full-time carpenter, though my ultimate goal is to get back in school that I might escape such madness.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What's the life of a carpenter like in the 21st century?
 

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Originally posted by Engetsu
What's the life of a carpenter like in the 21st century?
from all reports, in australia the life of ALL tradesmen is great. i can only assume its the same throughout the western world.

tradesmen = carpenter, plumber, electrictian etc..

due to the massive boom of home computers through the 90's and continuing today, so many kids are going into courses related to computers, IT, computer engineering, computer science etc..

thus there are less people going into the trades.

not to mention the pushing that the schools and government do with further education.

and the people being turned off by low wages for 4 years, but still having hardwork.

supposed to be some serious cash at there for hard working tradesmen.
 

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Originally posted by quest
from all reports, in australia the life of ALL tradesmen is great. i can only assume its the same throughout the western world.

tradesmen = carpenter, plumber, electrictian etc..

due to the massive boom of home computers through the 90's and continuing today, so many kids are going into courses related to computers, IT, computer engineering, computer science etc..

thus there are less people going into the trades.

not to mention the pushing that the schools and government do with further education.

and the people being turned off by low wages for 4 years, but still having hardwork.

supposed to be some serious cash at there for hard working tradesmen.
Utter tripe. My friend was a plumber and made $10 an hour until he was laid off. Now he recieves unemployment and lives in his girlfriend's house. All his friends (plumbers, except me) we also laid off.
 

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@DrMetallica - No, quest actually hit the nail on the head.

Im a full time multi-discipline design student.

As with MetalFortress, the intention is to create my own ladder at some point...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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cool metalfortress, i was also thinking getting into the business investment.. studying civil-economy or whatever you call it in the states, i was also thinking international economy
 

Tryin to Grow a Chin

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Originally posted by Engetsu
What's the life of a carpenter like in the 21st century?
Structures still need to be built by craftsmen, no matter how high tech everything else becomes.

Pay really depends on who you're working for. I'm still at a lower skill level, but I can usually take home about 3 grand a month, though granted, only if I work six or seven days a week. Skilled Union carpenters can make double that or more, along with full benefits and retirement at half pay.

Chances are, the typical Mexican on the street doesn't have a clue how to lay out a hip roof, so the trade remains specialized enough to resist subversion by cheap labor.

Additionally, starting one's own contracting firm can be a path to millions.
 
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Graphic Design, or rather, trying to break into graphic design (which isn't easy, even with a BA and a good deal of experience :rolleyes: ).

Woo, I'll tell you what I'd rather be doing though is anything that would put me in direct contact with new people on a regular basis. I just have no clue what kind of job offers that little perk and pays more than $7.50/hr...
 

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Kerensky, cool job!

but i'm planning on starting a business with my brother. As well my dream aspiration is to be a music producer/composer AS WELL as a DJ. Guess DJ Tiesto will come to mind as the most common known type of that kind.

so yeah, that's my dream. in the mean time i do rave parties locally, hopefully i'll go national and perhaps international
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mergers and Acquisitions/Securities lawyer (about 6 years in)
 

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Does your occupation define you as a DJ or is it your attitude?

Hypoxia II
 

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Law student, just obtained my real estate license, and i buy and sell luxury cars.

Law school is overrated. Putting up with everyones egos is enough to drive any sane person mad. The females are really hard to put up with; feminism to the 100th degree!

....My advice to the ones seeking wealth, REAL ESTATE!
 

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grr i see "real estate" everywhere but what the hell does it mean?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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