"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dj Music!

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oilers05

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Hey, I was just updating my Music Library and I was wondering what music you guys listenin to/what is good Don Juan music.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MXPX - Panic
Starting Line - Based on a True Story
Goldfinger - Hang Ups
Goldfinger - Stomping Ground
Flogging Molly - Drunken Lullabies

Those are the most recent albums that I bought. They're all pretty good. If you just get one then I would probably go for Stomping Ground or Panic. What kind of music do you like?
 

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Hey, thanks for the reply. As far as what music I like, I've been all across the map man. I've tried Slipknot (too angry), I've tried Deathcabforcutie (too emo), I'm still looking for that band/bands to get me in a better mindset.
 

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for some insane reason, every time i listen to alexisonfire (plugging the canadian band here :D) i'm just ON. something about it just gets my grove on. no transitory especially
 

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Good music is the music you like. There is no "DJ music". Watch this thread get closed..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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