"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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kentgraham10

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Okay so about three years ago I decided what I was doing wasn't good enough and before long I found this site. Read the DJ Bible, started working out, and changed myself for the better. Had a bit of a skid that's not really relevant except for the fact that the music I started listen to shifted. Broke most of the bad habits I had gotten into but this isn't one of them.

To give you an idea, the sort of stuff I like is alternative/indie who's music is written by what sounds like beta chumps most of the time. It's not exactly the kind of **** that is going to get you pumped up to make cold approaches during the day or have a productive outing at night so I am coming here for help. When it comes to music, I'm ready to sell out.

I am open to any genre of music you guys can recommend, I just need **** that will get me pumped up and DJ. If you guys have bands to recommend that fit my tastes, great, if not, that's probably for the better!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hey man I ****ing love music, once I discovered sosuave I cut alot of the music that sang about girls/romance/love **** out of my library because I felt that it was toxic too me (I listen to alot of music).

I'm going to give you some links to some bands that i listen to without the genre name. I feel like most people are biased towards bands after hearing the genre (not saying your going to be biased just want you to listen with an open mind). Anyways here we go most of this stuff gets me pumped in some way or another (Most people hate my tastes anyways).

Castevet
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0KKVDUyabtU

Latterman
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rTWRj6lZFTQ

Iron Lung
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O19RhztoyFw

Jawbreaker
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TOJqFezG01A

Charles Bronson
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1rqCuEqs4pY

I'm interested in hearing what other DJ's listen too. If none of these bands really do it for ya
tell me and i might be able to recommend some more ****.
 
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Some Nice "Listenable" Hip Hop/Rap

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wo97R0ib1CE

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IVMcNhbOZJU

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BoEKWtgJQAU

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X_QVl4ZNchM

Dont listen to much Pop but I do like these songs

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w-m7VcTB8Pg

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IsUsVbTj2AY

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5NV6Rdv1a3I

Just started listening to rock

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DUnpNq7U2Qk

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2NI27q3xNyI

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ghb6eDopW8I

hope that helps
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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