"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJ Music (Not Disc Jockey..)

kentgraham10

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Okay so about three years ago I decided what I was doing wasn't good enough and before long I found this site. Read the DJ Bible, started working out, and changed myself for the better. Had a bit of a skid that's not really relevant except for the fact that the music I started listen to shifted. Broke most of the bad habits I had gotten into but this isn't one of them.

To give you an idea, the sort of stuff I like is alternative/indie who's music is written by what sounds like beta chumps most of the time. It's not exactly the kind of **** that is going to get you pumped up to make cold approaches during the day or have a productive outing at night so I am coming here for help. When it comes to music, I'm ready to sell out.

I am open to any genre of music you guys can recommend, I just need **** that will get me pumped up and DJ. If you guys have bands to recommend that fit my tastes, great, if not, that's probably for the better!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ediceneet12

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Hey man I ****ing love music, once I discovered sosuave I cut alot of the music that sang about girls/romance/love **** out of my library because I felt that it was toxic too me (I listen to alot of music).

I'm going to give you some links to some bands that i listen to without the genre name. I feel like most people are biased towards bands after hearing the genre (not saying your going to be biased just want you to listen with an open mind). Anyways here we go most of this stuff gets me pumped in some way or another (Most people hate my tastes anyways).

Castevet
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0KKVDUyabtU

Latterman
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rTWRj6lZFTQ

Iron Lung
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O19RhztoyFw

Jawbreaker
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TOJqFezG01A

Charles Bronson
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1rqCuEqs4pY

I'm interested in hearing what other DJ's listen too. If none of these bands really do it for ya
tell me and i might be able to recommend some more ****.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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