"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm looking for movies with characters who accurately portray the attitude and/or lifestyle of a true Don Juan. Any suggestions?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Steele Magnolias
 

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Legends of the fall (Brad Pitt's charecter)

Don Juan DeMarco (Johnny Depp as Don Juan is great particular the way he talks and constructs his sentences. The feeling and emotion behind his words are a huge turn on to women)

Fight Club (Brad)

Top Gun (Tom Cruise)

James Bond (Pierce, Sean, Roger sex gods of modern cinema)

Street Car Named Desire (Great classic with Marlon Brando, BODY LANGUAGE BODY LANGUAGE BODY LANGUAGE!!!!!)

East of Eden (James Dean, what can I say if you need a male role model look no further)

Watch some Robbie Williams music DVD's to. Robbie is just about the most charismatic person I have ever seen.

These last three are mostly to do with Alpha Males

Casino (Joe Pesci, talk about intimidating!)

The Sopranos (Tony Soprano)

Goodfellas (Pesci again)
 

Tomatoes

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This post is done easily once a month. Can you please do a search instead of re posting posts that have already been done.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lifeforce

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There are no correct lifestyle of a don juan. And trust me, being a "Don Juan" in my opinion has almost nothing to do with women. The less I think about women and focus on my other parts of life the more women I (can) get.

If you want a good movie then find out either what you feel you want to be spite what you think you want to be and find a movie about this. Or find a movie that has a connection to a goal in your life. These movie characters you see who seduce women on screen would seem pathetic in real life.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why hasn't anyone mentioned DON JUAN demarco?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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