"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ManiacJack
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Although there a few obvious ones that you can't admit to... But they go without saying if you've been a DJ long enough...
What was shown was that being nice when you lie is better than being dramatic.
Fast forward a week later, he'd show back up to return it. He'd say that she cheated on him, or for some other reason that wasn't his fault, they broke up. He'd then get the girl's number from the store, and take her out. This worked for him all the time.
The guy was a great DJ, but damn, that's just WAY too much work. Such an elaborate lie, I don't think I could keep it up. So there's one example for you.
But, as a DJ, shouldn't you have the confidence that you're an awesome dude, that you don't NEED to lie to women?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Another reason I wouldn't personally go this route is that starting off the relationship with a lie I would feel awkward in the relationship. But if it works for you, who am I to stop you?