"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DJ liars
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ManiacJack
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Although there a few obvious ones that you can't admit to... But they go without saying if you've been a DJ long enough...
What was shown was that being nice when you lie is better than being dramatic.
Fast forward a week later, he'd show back up to return it. He'd say that she cheated on him, or for some other reason that wasn't his fault, they broke up. He'd then get the girl's number from the store, and take her out. This worked for him all the time.
The guy was a great DJ, but damn, that's just WAY too much work. Such an elaborate lie, I don't think I could keep it up. So there's one example for you.
But, as a DJ, shouldn't you have the confidence that you're an awesome dude, that you don't NEED to lie to women?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Another reason I wouldn't personally go this route is that starting off the relationship with a lie I would feel awkward in the relationship. But if it works for you, who am I to stop you?