"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJ intervention needed here

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This woman i work with at home depot puts way more effort into getting me jealous than she does getting me to like her. she parades around the store with other guys, flirts and plans her weekend with them etc, then if i walk by her dept and don't stop in to say hi she
b!tches to her friends about it for the rest of the day. should i play with her a little or let it go?

she's a strong 6 low-end 7 but her personality has me thinking 2.5 or 3
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Let her do her thing. You do your thing, you don't have to let her affect you or bend to her whims. You don't even have to react.

If you aren't that interested, then you shouldn't really care about it.
 
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NOT reacting / NOT interested is making her try even harder

I talked to her friends at lunch today and she expected me to make some kind of move after i waved at her
I think i posted here about it.
But anyway her friends were busting her @ss when she reported back to them all giddy
like a school girl cuz i waved at her and she was only trying to prove something i guess.
 
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