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DJ-ing is dangerous!! I've nexted a psycho!!

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Damn DJ-ing sure can be dangerous. It seems encountering crazy psycho, revenge hungry chicks is all a part of the game. Two of my friends are players/pickup artists and they had a few cases where it ended with girls stalking them, trying to ruin their lifes and even in one case a court restraining order.

The thing is i had a problem with my first DJ experiment, she's a very popular 10. With the skills on this site i made her fall for me REAL hard. I made her obsessed with me. Truly in love. But one day i just nexted her and then avoided her for a period and then got a girlfriend so she got REAL mad.

Thing is we never even had a relationship, but i flirted like crazy and did some massive kino. To her it seemed as if i was gonna just kiss her at any moment (she anticipated it). But i did not since i started noticing the psycho elements to her and just moved on to the next girls in line.

Now for revenge she as the manipulative cold hearted bi*ch she is started manipulating alot of my friends to the point where none of them wants to be my friend anymore. HELP!! What can i do? I've tried talking to her telling her she has no right to do that and she just told me "she's almighty and she can do whatever damn she pleases". I noticed she's still very much obsessed in me. She's still not able to not look at me all the time. She does think she "owns me" as she gets all red and jealous when she sees me flirting with girls. And thanks to this site i'm flirting hardcore with the best chicks around. She tends to see alot of that.

Any of you guys had a problem with a psycho revenging on you for playin' her? Girls do take their emotions very seriosly. How did ya go about handling it? Taking control of the situation is the obvious answer. But how? I never seemed able to do that.
 
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Real mates will see she is psycho and stick by you if you are calm and act appropriately. Don't try to reason with her, just cut her out full stop.
 

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You call the police and register a complain in case something serious ever happens.

You avoid her at all costs - you ignore her. Over time, it will cease.

This is what I did anyway and it worked - but there were a few months where I had to endure some pretty serious wacked-out ****.
 

cestmoi

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What if we're all in the same circle of friends (the two friends of mine and her)? It's pretty much a hard thing when you all need to go out together.
 

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Originally posted by cestmoi
Damn DJ-ing sure can be dangerous. It seems encountering crazy psycho, revenge hungry chicks is all a part of the game.

The thing is i had a problem with my first DJ experiment, she's a very popular 10. I made her obsessed with me. Truly in love. But one day i just nexted her and then avoided her for a period and then got a girlfriend so she got REAL mad.

Now for revenge she as the manipulative cold hearted bi*ch she is started manipulating alot of my friends to the point where none of them wants to be my friend anymore. HELP!! What can i do? I've tried talking to her telling her she has no right to do that and she just told me "she's almighty and she can do whatever damn she pleases". I noticed she's still very much obsessed in me. She's still not able to not look at me all the time. She does think she "owns me" as she gets all red and jealous when she sees me flirting with girls. And thanks to this site i'm flirting hardcore with the best chicks around. She tends to see alot of that.

Any of you guys had a problem with a psycho revenging on you for playin' her? Girls do take their emotions very seriosly. How did ya go about handling it? Taking control of the situation is the obvious answer. But how? I never seemed able to do that.
Well, you're not the only one mate!

Not that I made someone fall in love with me, but the revenge thing happens!

Once you ignore them, don't put up with their behavior, they may go into a vindictive state!
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Sleep with her

(Just joking, dont do it! Unless you want a bigger psycho)
 

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I know its an old post but to get rid of an obssessive nutcase, you need to change your behaviour so the desire and her intrest level will drop. That means actually making yourself an AFC!

- Call her 5 times a day and tell her you love her and miss her. whine and complain you don't see her enough.
- buy her cheap presents that represent your feelings to her.
- Brush you hair like pee-wee and wear thick ugly glasses, also dress two sizes smaller and have food stains all over your shirt. Do not take a shower for days and don't put on deodrant.
- Every time she wants to do something tell her you are tired and only want to watch t.v and have sex
- When you are out in public, hug her and tell her how pretty she is and give guys dirty looks when they pass by.
- Start crying and b1tching how life sucks, your job sucks, you are not making any money, you are worring about the future and you are glad she is the only positive thing in your life.
- take her to dinner in a fast food resturant, while looking at the menu or selection complain how expensive the prices are and when its time to pay tell her you are short a few dollars.
- Thank her each time you have sex and always ask her premission to kiss her.

If you do all that you will reek of desperation and she will eventually leave you alone. By the way if any of the above describes you, you need help!!
 

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Those friends you had weren't real friends. Just move on. I'd be weary of people who are easily steered by another person's opinion in this case a psycho chick.
 

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Hell hath no fury like a women scorned!

one thing ive noticed is that at the end of relationships most guys shut up and thats it, many women however set about on a spin/propaganda mission to make you look wrong, bad or even a total a$shole! end result is you end up looking bad a lot of the time unless you counter it with your own spin...but who the fvck can be arsed with that?
my own personal examples are...when i was 17 chick im seeing gets drunk at a party and jealous..we go outside to talk, she trys to kick me in the balls! i dodge it, she falls over and falls in the bushes....rips all her panty hose.....I think fvck this, she on the other hand goes inside and tells all that I hit her and pushed her in the bushes! ^%$$#

fast forward 20 years, Im in the pub, new women on my arm...old women from a year ago is in there...someone pours a pint on my head? its old gf....i ask why? she says shes always wanted to do it...ok youve done it so now fvck off right!!!!! im leaving pub, she comes after me and throws a glass at my head...new gf runs off...i say to old gf..pack it in! anyway were talking and she kicks me in the nuts (b!tch) and slashes my head with a beer can shes twisted in half (fvkin psyco b!tch) I push her off and get the **** outta there....so I meet my buddy on the street and im telling him the story, out of the shadows she runs out with this fvcking tree branch and smacks me on the back of the head???????? my buddy jumps on her and wrestles her to the floor...now this women is not a trailer loving white trash..shes a therapist for a living who specialises in treating children!!!
The real kicker is this..my sister asked her why did you hit my bro?
and the b!tch says " because he rapped me." I nearly had a heart attack...what an evil b!tch.....I saw her again a few months later and she asked me for a hug!!!!!!! PS, Im watching fatal attraction on tv right now...scary sh!t man.......
 

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Originally posted by Life-Trainee
Those friends you had weren't real friends. Just move on. I'd be weary of people who are easily steered by another person's opinion in this case a psycho chick.
I agree with you, but u never know. Sometimes people are just too naive thus easily manipulated!

Other times the bad people are so good camaleons that even a good person would fall for their lies!! Read about "narcissism" (NPD) for example and you'll have some notion of manipulation, and "control" of people's perceptions!
 

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There's a difference between being a DJ and being a Player. DJ's don't usually get as many women as players but they don't have some of the issues that players do with women that are vengeful.

When it comes down to it, it's a question of whether you want quality or quantity. One's not necessarily better than the other, just different. Be ready to deal with the pitfalls that each has although different.
 

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LMAO
I thought you siad she was crazy!!!
 

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Any of you guys had a problem with a psycho revenging on you for playin' her?
Yup, I've had it happen.

Women like this can be very controlling, manipulative, and dependent. Best thing to do is avoid her as much as possible. As soon as she hooks onto another guy she can control, she'll start backing off.
 

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Originally posted by englishman

fast forward 20 years, Im in the pub, new women on my arm...old women from a year ago is in there...someone pours a pint on my head? its old gf....i ask why? she says shes always wanted to do it...ok youve done it so now fvck off right!!!!! im leaving pub, she comes after me and throws a glass at my head...new gf runs off...i say to old gf..pack it in! anyway were talking and she kicks me in the nuts (b!tch) and slashes my head with a beer can shes twisted in half (fvkin psyco b!tch) I push her off and get the **** outta there....so I meet my buddy on the street and im telling him the story, out of the shadows she runs out with this fvcking tree branch and smacks me on the back of the head???????? my buddy jumps on her and wrestles her to the floor...now this women is not a trailer loving white trash..shes a therapist for a living who specialises in treating children!!!
The real kicker is this..my sister asked her why did you hit my bro?
and the b!tch says " because he rapped me." I nearly had a heart attack...what an evil b!tch.....I saw her again a few months later and she asked me for a hug!!!!!!! PS, Im watching fatal attraction on tv right now...scary sh!t man.......
GOD DAMN!

you sure are a sucker!

Its called assault with a deadly weapon. First you let the b1tch pour a "pint" o your head.. then throws a glass at your head... then she kicks u in the nuts... and then slashs your face with a beer can...... and on top of all that the b1tch gets a damn TREE BRANCH and smack you on the head.... bahahahahahaha
 

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The friends are going to side with her because they secretly want her themselves. Go out and make new friends.

To the guy that got assaulted...I think it's safe to say that you must have really hurt that woman's feelings to get her so angry with you that she'd behave that way. Her behavior was awful...yes...and it's so bizarre that I'm kinda wondering what happened between the two of you that instilled such rage in her. I might advise you that whatever it was...make sure it never happens with anyone else...or wear a hard hat on dates.
 

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That is why chasing for pvssy is not worth it. To me she must undergo the sanity test for me. If in the first meetings she does things I'm not fond or if I don't like the way she likes she's cut right off the bat in my mind and placed in my friends zone.
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Blame the f*cking victim. [/QUOTE

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Thats just what i thought, fvcking typical...women gets hit by man' He must be an a$shole, she is a poor victim'

man gets hit by women 'He must be an a$shole, she is a poor victim'

fvckin hypocrasy or what!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If i was such a cvnt how come she asked me for a hug when i saw her after that? shes a jealous phsyco b!tch who cant hold her drink.. oh AND did i mention a femenist!
 

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Originally posted by SDFUandDie
GOD DAMN!

you sure are a sucker!

Its called assault with a deadly weapon. First you let the b1tch pour a "pint" o your head.. then throws a glass at your head... then she kicks u in the nuts... and then slashs your face with a beer can...... and on top of all that the b1tch gets a damn TREE BRANCH and smack you on the head.... bahahahahahaha
Yep, I guess I coulda just turned around and smacked her in the head! male conditioning I guess?
 

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