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[oda]

ok, me and the best looking girl i know both broke it off with our long time partners around the same time... during the breakup time we helped eachother through it, talking about everything possible

this is when we started to consider eachother... the reason she broke up with her boyfriend was: he was too shy, timid, wasnt willing to take the initiative to **** her ect. ect. (he was a *****)
and i broke it off my with gf because she wasnt the wild girl i need (cue this new girl)

so over the past 2 weeks we've been taking things slow:
KINO: check, she digs me.
playing hard to get on both sides
shes playing uninterested because shes interested

so i ask her to go grab some pizza, because i know she loves it, and she turns me down, she has other plans (legit), then a few days later i ask her again thinking i may have my chance...

this is when she tells me:
anthony im very interested in you (i was right) and i want things to work, but what gets me to really like a guy is the chase... i probably sent you crossed signals because of my last relationship, but thats what i really want
(this is her spilling her guts to me, she likes me, shes very interested), i think we should just hold up a little bit, rewind to where we started and try it over

(this was awesome, because i felt like she was gonna tell me that things were never gonna work, cuz im not her type... BUT SHE UNDERSTANDS (thats new to me))

so here i sit, contimplating ways to make her mine...

my question is, its my turn to play hard to get... what drives women nuts (and this has to work over a significant amount of time (2-3 weeks))

any tips are much appreciated, thank you

PS this girl is a 10/10
Model Face
5'7 110lbs
34 D Bangin ass dresses to kill

 

[MisterAl]

You're about to get friend-zoned. Her Interest Level is _much_ lower than you think. Recovery may not be possible. Fortunately, you realize that you need to play "hard to get."

Surprisingly, this girl has enough insight to know that what she and most normal woman crave is "the chase." And you didn't give her one.

You spent too much time dumping out your feelings with this chick after your breakups. You may even have poured out your feelings for her. Your actions were anti-chase. She knew she had you, and you didn't let her feel the butterflies in her stomach that come from a little bit of insecurity and create attraction.

She is trying to rationalize that she should have feelings for you, but that will never be enough to overcome her lack of attraction to you. You can try to build attraction in her by changing your behavior.

You must now back off immediately. Cut at least in half the number of times you see each other. Do not call her, instead let her call you. Let her "chase" you. If she does chase you, raise the stakes physically with a kiss on the lips, then back off again and wait for her to chase again.

 

[Surfboard]

PS this girl is a 10/10
Model Face
5'7 110lbs
34 D Bangin ass dresses to kill

Forget this!! It's blinding you from seeing the obvious answer. Now step back out of the smoke and remember these words.

ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS!!

These are her ACTIONS:

so i ask her to go grab some pizza, because i know she loves it, and she turns me down

These are her WORDS:

anthony im very interested in you (i was right) and i want things to work, but what gets me to really like a guy is the chase... i probably sent you crossed signals because of my last relationship, but thats what i really want

The actions say... I DON'T WANT TO GO OUT WITH YOU.

The words say... BLAH BLAH BLAH.

Anyway ODA, I do like the fact that you showed a little persistence, but you have to know when it's time to cut bait.

Many of the guys on this forum have been down the same trail that you're on now (myself included). What it all comes down to is that you ask a girl out to see if she's interested in you in a romantic way. She rejected you twice.

Her little story about how she's interested in you, is nothing more than her trying to let you down easy.

 

[oda]

alright thanks my man

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Surfdude, way to pinpoint the answer!