"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJ Gir!??

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wel my question is last night i was dancing and sudenlly seen a girl watching me she was the DJ ( Disk JOkeys) girl.
so she come and danced with me like 1 hour at end we kissed ;) and promised to meet again so she teach me snowborading and i teach her pesona defence.

but She is a lil bit tall almost my hight and also a famouse model in town is there any chance for me?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bonhomme

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Of course, dammit!

Of course there's a chance for you, as long as you're open to it. You're a Don Juan, right?

Banish the thought of there being "no chance for you," and continue having fun with her.
 

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yeah man,
she approached you to, so she likes your ass man..!!!
 

AverageFC

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tall model DJ wtf is wrong with you

******slaps like you Deangelo*

yes.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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thejuice

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LOL...haha, cute

Hey, everybody has a chance with everybody...given some chances are smaller than others, but a chance! if i were you, id take it. Oh, and about her almost being your height, my girlfriend is slightly taller than me, and its ok with both of us. Dont worry and go with the flow and dont interrupt the current. It sounds ike this chick is casual...
 

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Originally posted by aliop
wel my question is last night i was dancing and sudenlly seen a girl watching me she was the DJ ( Disk JOkeys) girl.
so she come and danced with me like 1 hour at end we kissed ;) and promised to meet again so she teach me snowborading and i teach her pesona defence.

but She is a lil bit tall almost my hight and also a famouse model in town is there any chance for me?
Forget her status of being a model etc.. treat her just like u would treat any other girl... remember, she is lucky to be with YOU! Now stop having these doughts and go for it! She is OBVIOUSLY interested in you!

Laterz...
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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Re: Re: DJ Gir!??

Originally posted by aequitas
Forget her status of being a model etc.. treat her just like u would treat any other girl... remember, she is lucky to be with YOU! Now stop having these doughts and go for it! She is OBVIOUSLY interested in you!

Laterz...
thats a good point, she has enough people pampering her, treating her like shes somthing else. So treat her like you treat anyone else, and you will score.
 

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Thanks for your repleys!

Wel last night i was again in the same disco and was watching ice hockey thereon tv sudenly someone touched and i smeled something familier and when watched it was that girl passed from beside me!

and after sometimes i was speaking with freind that she said hi from far away but damn i didnt responded and all the night she was watching me .l

My target was another girl last night so thats why i didnt payed attention to that model girl.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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An idea...

aliop said:

My target was another girl last night so thats why i didnt payed attention to that model girl.
Well why didnt you USE the model girl to get to the other girl, and visa versa? Eg: You could of gone up to the model girl and started talking etc with her, the other girl would see that u can get with all these hot other girls and that will immediatelly create interest... then after talking to the model girl and flirting etc you go up to this other girl which is your "target" and you start talking to her, ask her what brings her there, get to know her etc... Now by you talking to this other girl you are also making that model girl jelous, so you are kinda "killing 2 birds with 1 stone"

Otherwise... Dont waste TOO MUCH time, because eventhough that model chick has interest in you, interest fades away after a while if nothing is done about it.

I suggest u get both of these girls nu,bers and then flirt etc with them via sms's etc, so that will keep the interest levels high, and then u work on 1 of them at a time, just try and NOT let the other find out about the other, girls HATE being 2nd choicel:rolleyes:

Laterz...
 
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