"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJ Gir!??

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wel my question is last night i was dancing and sudenlly seen a girl watching me she was the DJ ( Disk JOkeys) girl.
so she come and danced with me like 1 hour at end we kissed ;) and promised to meet again so she teach me snowborading and i teach her pesona defence.

but She is a lil bit tall almost my hight and also a famouse model in town is there any chance for me?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Of course, dammit!

Of course there's a chance for you, as long as you're open to it. You're a Don Juan, right?

Banish the thought of there being "no chance for you," and continue having fun with her.
 
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yeah man,
she approached you to, so she likes your ass man..!!!
 
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tall model DJ wtf is wrong with you

******slaps like you Deangelo*

yes.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LOL...haha, cute

Hey, everybody has a chance with everybody...given some chances are smaller than others, but a chance! if i were you, id take it. Oh, and about her almost being your height, my girlfriend is slightly taller than me, and its ok with both of us. Dont worry and go with the flow and dont interrupt the current. It sounds ike this chick is casual...
 
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Originally posted by aliop
wel my question is last night i was dancing and sudenlly seen a girl watching me she was the DJ ( Disk JOkeys) girl.
so she come and danced with me like 1 hour at end we kissed ;) and promised to meet again so she teach me snowborading and i teach her pesona defence.

but She is a lil bit tall almost my hight and also a famouse model in town is there any chance for me?
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Forget her status of being a model etc.. treat her just like u would treat any other girl... remember, she is lucky to be with YOU! Now stop having these doughts and go for it! She is OBVIOUSLY interested in you!

Laterz...
 
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Re: Re: DJ Gir!??

Originally posted by aequitas
Forget her status of being a model etc.. treat her just like u would treat any other girl... remember, she is lucky to be with YOU! Now stop having these doughts and go for it! She is OBVIOUSLY interested in you!

Laterz...
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thats a good point, she has enough people pampering her, treating her like shes somthing else. So treat her like you treat anyone else, and you will score.
 
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Thanks for your repleys!

Wel last night i was again in the same disco and was watching ice hockey thereon tv sudenly someone touched and i smeled something familier and when watched it was that girl passed from beside me!

and after sometimes i was speaking with freind that she said hi from far away but damn i didnt responded and all the night she was watching me .l

My target was another girl last night so thats why i didnt payed attention to that model girl.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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An idea...

aliop said:

My target was another girl last night so thats why i didnt payed attention to that model girl.
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Well why didnt you USE the model girl to get to the other girl, and visa versa? Eg: You could of gone up to the model girl and started talking etc with her, the other girl would see that u can get with all these hot other girls and that will immediatelly create interest... then after talking to the model girl and flirting etc you go up to this other girl which is your "target" and you start talking to her, ask her what brings her there, get to know her etc... Now by you talking to this other girl you are also making that model girl jelous, so you are kinda "killing 2 birds with 1 stone"

Otherwise... Dont waste TOO MUCH time, because eventhough that model chick has interest in you, interest fades away after a while if nothing is done about it.

I suggest u get both of these girls nu,bers and then flirt etc with them via sms's etc, so that will keep the interest levels high, and then u work on 1 of them at a time, just try and NOT let the other find out about the other, girls HATE being 2nd choicel:rolleyes:

Laterz...
 
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