"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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well I guess I only put DJ in there in hope this thread wont get closed.....

anyone who is interested in doing a Fantasy Baseball League this yr...that comes here...sign ur name in this thread so I know we can get enough people..I already have myself and a friend.

only sign on if u will play out the season! obviously if u post here everyday you get online everyday.

scoring and things like that can be decided after we see the size of the league
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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5 months and 444 posts or so, and you still do not think maybe anythingelse would be more apropriate for this thread? haha i bet this is to spite diabalo and his threat to close posts!
 

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No one goes there...so even if they send it there..which they will...atleast someone gets to see it and maybe some guys will sign up.

I dont see why it needs to be sent there..I think Fantasy baseball is pretty good compared to some of the stuff posted on here
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
well I guess I only put DJ in there in hope this thread wont get closed.....
It would be better off in Anything Else... unless you can figure out a way that online fantasy baseball will attact or seduce women - then it's back to DJ Discussion with it. :p

Good luck on the team.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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what is fantasy baseball exactly?

anything else is the third most popular spot in sosuave. If Diablo wanted to be really mean he would send it to the wingman forum;)
 

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uh huh that helps:rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
dont u live in the united states?
yes, I used to be baseballDJ. I don't understand if we are meeting up or something or betting what team is going to win the world series or what this is.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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