"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hockey Playa

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I know this shoudl probably be in ''Anything Else'', but i thought more people with facebook would see it here. I was thinking we should make a Don juan facebook group, look at each others profiles, suggest facebook pickups ( i know corny), i searched Don juan in the group and got a whole bunch of groups, not sure if any of them were related to this site or not. Anyways anyone in?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Make it private if you make it at all, and call it something totally random. The last thing we need is this info getting into general circulation, especially on facebook.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SharinganUser

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Quiksilver said:
Make it private if you make it at all, and call it something totally random. The last thing we need is this info getting into general circulation, especially on facebook.

My thoughts exactly.
 

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i think its a bad idea, we dont want this site getting round to others.
if made, it has to be top secret, and invites to join the group can only be sent if you PM the creator through sosuave. (or something along those lines)

:)
 

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I was creating one but unfortunately to invite people in a secret group, you have to add them as friends....how about I create one with a random name, you guys post your names on here, I add you and invite you?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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also this is a good idea 'cos we can see what everyone looks like (plus I get a pint for every 50 friends I get :p)
 

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yeh nice one howard.. rather not have precious knowledge given away for free!! :up:
 

bigshot

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yeah i think thats a great idea, but it has to have a random name (ill leave that 2 u). but yeah everyone who has facebook should PM their names 2 u.
hows about that?


howardalex said:
I was creating one but unfortunately to invite people in a secret group, you have to add them as friends....how about I create one with a random name, you guys post your names on here, I add you and invite you?
 

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bigshot said:
yeah i think thats a great idea, but it has to have a random name (ill leave that 2 u). but yeah everyone who has facebook should PM their names 2 u.
hows about that?
I called it "I want a TVR!" - no-one'll think twice :)

if anyone wants to be an admin and you have lots of posts, I think I'll probs let you be one :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Play the Game

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howardalex said:
I called it "I want a TVR!" - no-one'll think twice :)

if anyone wants to be an admin and you have lots of posts, I think I'll probs let you be one :)
lol TVRs rock!
but i like to keep this site as an alternate ego,
you know so my gf doesn't find this one day and say:

ohh so this whole relationship was just a little game to you... :whistle:
 

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this is such a dumb idea. why do you want a fb group again? for attention?

grow a pair, you're not a woman
 

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Potbelly said:
this is such a dumb idea. why do you want a fb group again? for attention?

grow a pair, you're not a woman
no it's secret...so no-one can find out about it....oh yeah attention :whistle:
 

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The thing is, the group link can be seen by randoms looking at your profile...so then they intrude on that..and discover you really are a PUA and then well....hmm..
 

bigshot

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yeah i honestly think its a bad idea, stick to sosuave :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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