"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hello DJ's, I have some questions that perhaps someone may answer for me for which I'd appreciate. Suppose I took part in the DJ Boot Camp and approached some girls to get numbers, 1) Does anyone have any specific brand of clothes you should wear when approaching a chick to make you look attractive? (Like, calvin kline button down shirt with vintage jeans, black shoes, etc) 2) What type of hairstyle do women prefer? Name an actor with that hairstyle so we know what it looks like. Most of these "guru books" like Dave Deangelo and DJ are vague and just say to look "nice" and get a "good hairstyle," but what does that mean specifically? Thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by RedGTP
Hello DJ's, I have some questions that perhaps someone may answer for me for which I'd appreciate. Suppose I took part in the DJ Boot Camp and approached some girls to get numbers, 1) Does anyone have any specific brand of clothes you should wear when approaching a chick to make you look attractive? (Like, calvin kline button down shirt with vintage jeans, black shoes, etc) 2) What type of hairstyle do women prefer? Name an actor with that hairstyle so we know what it looks like. Most of these "guru books" like Dave Deangelo and DJ are vague and just say to look "nice" and get a "good hairstyle," but what does that mean specifically? Thanks.
It means that different things look good on differenet people and that different women find different things appealing.

Use some common sense.
 

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Re: Re: DJ Dress Code

Use some common sense. [/B][/QUOTE]


Exactly: not all women like the same things on guys. Some like a guy with tatoos some girls are repulsed by it. Its all a matter of opinon. With hair styles and clothes go to a store and find an attractive girl employee and ask for her opinions on different clothes.

- Smooth 056 -
 

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Wear what looks on you, whatever that may be.
 

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I've never been a fashion guy. I usually wear a plain colored shirt and some jeans with sneakers. EVerything is clean, but defintely not flash. Then i came to a conclusion, that as a Guy your eyes automaticlly go to a woman wearing an outfit that you have seen an attractive women wear many times before.

For example: If a girl is wearing tight jeans and a tight shirt. You automaticlly assume she's hot. Now if she's wearing kinda bagg y jeans and a sweater..you get the idea.

This definitely applies in clubs^ since you cant see faces all that well, you tend to just approach the chicks that are wearing revealing outfits, or the nicest looking clothes. As a girl, id imagine they look for what all the guys in the magazines wear.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The point of being a DJ isn't to be conformed or changed.... different things look good on different people. As a matter of fact, clothing aren't all that important, as long as your clothes are nice and neat you are ok; you're game should handle the rest.
 

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I'm wearin' middle-ish of the line stuff.. banana republic, cK, DKNY, express, etc. You can get some of that pretty cheap if you know how to look for them.

I can never go wrong with a pair of boot-cut jeans and a fitted button-down (maybe tshirt underneath). maybe screw the button-down and straight up vintage t. pair of black shoes works. clean sneakers work too. whatever.

Pick up an issue of GQ or Cargo. You don't have to buy the thousand-dollar shirt the model is wearing -- but it does give you an idea of what might look good.

And what ^^ those ppl said .. wear what looks good on you, what you feel confident in. as they say.. It's the Man that makes the clothes look good, not the other way around.

hair? i have no clue. i saw something my friend was rockin'. I took a picture, brought it to my barber and asked him to see what he could do. if you don't see anyone with hair you like.. i dunno.. go to an expensive-ass hair salon and tell them to make you look hot.

have fun :woo:

-JP
 

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Personally, I really like clean-cut looking clothing and dressing in a clean-cut looking fashion. The clothing I wear and the brand clothing I would suggest: Ralph Lauren Polo, Lacoste, and Banana Republic.
 

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Rules are
1)No shorts ever under any circumstances
2)NO SHORTS
3)if it costs less than ($20 Australian) ($30 American) THEN DONT BUY IT
4)No open toed shoes
5)No baggy cloths
6)no FLURO colours

Also a few tips:
-always wear a nice belt girls notice your belt.

-always have atleast 1 suit in you wardrobe

-Dont go crazy and buy winter cloths that are on Sale because its the start of summer.

-BLACK goes with any colour (but try to avoid mixing black and dark brown)

-As does WHITE

-Have more than 1 pair of shoes

-Just because there brand name it doesnt mean there better. This goes for shoes and cloths

-When buying cloths ask for a
girls opinion. Prefrably not the store owner.

-Try to buy everything on the same day . Not a shirt 1 week pants the next and shoes the week after.

Thats all the comes to mind.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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