Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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DJ club - JOIN IN!! (boot camp)

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Instead of a boot camp, i dare you guys to try out the DJ champions league. I started to make this game months ago (original topic: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=49615 ), but then i stoped. Now i'm feeling that i make a lot less aproaches, but now i have a lot more confidence in myself, so i will start playing this game again to get the proper results from my game, and make me work like i should.

So here it is how it works:

1 point - aproaching a girl
2 points - if your approach turns into an interaction lasting more than 10 minutes
2 points - being aproached by a girl (if she comes to talk at least a couple of minutes)
3 points - getting a #
5 points - getting a date, cofee or something of the kind another day
20 points - making out in the club with the girl (or in other place)
40 points - taking her home and banging her

(updated thx to feedback, more feedback is welcome)


None of the points are comulative. If you pass from one stage to another you lose the other points (ex: got a date, then banged her, won 40 pts but lost the 5 pts from the date)

Points for extra dating, etc (since its good to have a couple of chicks in the bag for whenever you're in the mood):

2 points Going for another date with a girl you already had date/makeout/sex
5 points Making out with a girl you already did. After the 3rd time with the same girl you dont get more points from her.
10 points Having sex with a girl you already did. After the 5th time with the same girls you dont get more points from her.

Same thing here, like if you had 3 dates and then bang her, you lose the 5+2+2 pts and win 40.

I want some of you guys to join in this, and we'll keep our scores updated every week! Who will dare to join this boot camp?
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So to set an example i'll post my week.

x2 Girl aproached me in the club 2 pts
x5 Made an aproach to a girl 1 pts
x1 Made out in the club 20 pts
x2 Got phone number 3 pts

Total: 4+5+20+6=35 pts
 

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Total of your weekend? or just one night?
 

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A week, that i went clubing 2 nights, and the rest were normal days.
 

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I would suggest additional point tiers.

1 point - aproaching a girl
2 points - being aproached by a girl (if she comes to talk at least a couple of minutes)
2 points - if the approach turns into an interaction lasting more than 15 minutes
3 points - getting a #
5 points - for venue changing her from the club to somewhere else (ie her place, a diner, etc)
10 points - for a makeout
10 points - for a Day2 or other date
15 points - for a hand job
20 points - for a blow job
40 points - taking her home and banging her (can be on a day 2 or whatever, but you can't count her more than once)
50 points - for doing something REALLY exotic like anal or doing it in public
But MOST importantly...
+10 points if you ENJOYED the night hanging out with your friends and flirting with beautiful women!


Damn, now I have to remember how this last week (10/17 to 10/23) went... (numbers in paranthesis is based off of Trance's point system, if different)

1x10 (20) makeout
3x3 phone numbers
2x5 (0) venue changes
~30x1 approaches (roughly, I forget actually how many approaches I did)
+10 points for just having fun!
TOTAL: 69 pts (my rating system) vs 59 pts (Trance's rating system)

Oh, and did that Big Busty Blonde count as a lay? I went out Saturday night (10/16) and ended up at their hotel into Sunday morning. If so, that's another +40.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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already done a couple of changes to the scores. now i thinks its nice.
 

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1 point - aproaching a girl
2 points - if your approach turns into an interaction lasting more than 10 minutes
2 points - being aproached by a girl (if she comes to talk at least a couple of minutes)
3 points - getting a #
5 points - getting a date, cofee or something of the kind another day
20 points - making out in the club with the girl (or in other place)
40 points - taking her home and banging her

hmm...from saturday night...
approach x4
+10 min interaction x3
being approached x1
making out x2
there might be more but thats all i remember doing...;)
so 52 pts for me
 

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1 point - aproaching a girl
2 points - if your approach turns into an interaction lasting more than 10 minutes
2 points - being aproached by a girl (if she comes to talk at least a couple of minutes)
3 points - getting a #
5 points - getting a date, cofee or something of the kind another day
20 points - making out in the club with the girl (or in other place)
40 points - taking her home and banging her

and if we're counting my weekdays(hopefully)
bang x2
date x2
+120 pts
:eek:
then comes next weekend...
 

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This week was a-fukin-awesome!

3x aproaching a girl - 3 pts
2x approach turns into an interaction lasting more than 10 minutes - 4 pts
1x being aproached by a girl (if she comes to talk at least a couple of minutes) - 2 pts
2x date, cofee or something of the kind another day - 10 pts
3x making out in the club with the girl (or in other place) - 60 pts
1x Having sex with a girl you already did. 10 pts
1x Extra from making something really kinky with a girl - making her show herself naked in public, and some humilliation/submission stuff. - 40 pts

Total: 139 pts!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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