"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJ Chat on irc

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Hey guys, realised DJChat on starchat wasn't goin anywhere soon, we need a place to have online convo's bout DJing, so here it is... Download Mirc, and fill in the easy details, connect to ??.austnet.org, replace ?? with your country code, (Only AU, EU, US, NZ, SG) for example, NZ is New Zealand, EU for europe etc. type /join #DonJuan and start chatting! Channel open 24/7. enjoy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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We have lift off! 1 whole user! cummon guys, get in here!
 

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I'm sorry to tell you that this isn't going to work.

For starters, the person who attempted to get the DJ Chat on 'StarChat' is far more esteemed than you. Thus, people are highly more likely to join his than yours... Thanks for putting out the effort, though. Great job taking the initiative and starting up another DJ Chat.

Also, if enough people had wanted to do this, wouldn't they have already joined up in StarChat? I suppose that by creating yet another "DJ Chat" you expect a rapid influx of interest, with people clamoring to join the channel (which you own, of course... :rolleyes: )

In economics terms, what you're attempting to do is equalize. It's for this reason that you don't have 2 Wal-Marts a block away from each other - they don't generate any new revenue, they just split the old. I think we'll stick to the original DJ Chat - not that anybody really joins it anyway, but still.

Lastly, please stop bumping your thread to the top. Let it die the natural death it is supposed to, on its own.

Also, shouldn't this be moved to "Suggestions and Feedback"? I see no new ideas nor contributions inherent in this thread.
 

Nicholas Hill

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Hey guys

Just to remind you:

  • The official DJ chat channel is #donjuan on irc.starchat.net
  • The channel is moderated by several people with equivelent abilities.
  • The channel is maintained in a no-nonsense fashion (no powermongering akick *'s for example)
  • StarChat is reliable and unobstructed with adverts, and has been for many years. Expect the same to continue

Nick
 

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Thats fine. But 1 suggestion... Advertise your DJ chat on irc more! I'm sure it wouldn't be empty if more ppl actually knew about it!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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penkitten

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it always takes me to a silly ****er spaniel page
 

Hot Ice

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Yes, The Offical chat is getting back really soon.

I just got internet connection to my place again and I'm able to keep the channel up.


There was some convo last night first time in like 2 months.

I bet it's going to be good again!



To all who are interested of this chat and that people come there to talk:
- Always go there when you are online.
- Stay there even if there's no-one online or responding
- Talk about it. Advertice it on your signature.

If you care about it, you come there often.
There's also some great DJ's around.

Check out my signature for help.
 

Nicholas Hill

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I am in the process of developing an IRC client to act and feel like MSN messenger. I may make a "donjuan" version that integrates well with the current don juan channel.

Depending on demand, I can be coerced into finishing it sooner...

Nick
 

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Sounds great Nicholas!

I definetely look forward to it.
And I think many other guys as well.
 
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