"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJ Bootcamp

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What's up fellas.

Hope all is well or getting better.

Two things:

1. If you aren't aware of it, here's the DJ Bible. A collection of articles/forum posts that give DJ insights. Many newbie questions can be answered by it so check it out. Master DJ's may find it refreshing too. Grewd mentioned it in the 'SoSuave or SoOffTrack' thread: instead of getting frustrated with newcomers, just direct them here or post links to DJ Bible content you think is relevant. Let's keep it positive 'round here.

http://www.djbible.classicalgasemissions.com

2. I'm going to do the DJ Boot Camp (you can find it in the downloads section on the DJ Bible link) and invite DJ's of all proficiencies to join me. I'll start around Jan 10. I'm in the process of moving to a new university and wrapping up family time so the 10th is a good time for me. Looking for people who are serious about putting in the work to achieve growth and willing to endure the growing pains. Looking forward to hearing from you all!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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