"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What's up fellas.

Hope all is well or getting better.

Two things:

1. If you aren't aware of it, here's the DJ Bible. A collection of articles/forum posts that give DJ insights. Many newbie questions can be answered by it so check it out. Master DJ's may find it refreshing too. Grewd mentioned it in the 'SoSuave or SoOffTrack' thread: instead of getting frustrated with newcomers, just direct them here or post links to DJ Bible content you think is relevant. Let's keep it positive 'round here.

http://www.djbible.classicalgasemissions.com

2. I'm going to do the DJ Boot Camp (you can find it in the downloads section on the DJ Bible link) and invite DJ's of all proficiencies to join me. I'll start around Jan 10. I'm in the process of moving to a new university and wrapping up family time so the 10th is a good time for me. Looking for people who are serious about putting in the work to achieve growth and willing to endure the growing pains. Looking forward to hearing from you all!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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