"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Purefilth

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Any starters on DJ bootcamp?
Ive put together Week 1 course syllabus and reading materials in word format. All ready for printing and all together in one place. Anyone who wants to start from scratch, post here.

Also if you want the ready to print docs, PM your email to me.

Gonna start up myself as a refresher course, would be good to do it alongside some other fellas.

Peace.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'd be interested in this, although I'm busy with Uni work and placements, is it a big commitment lol?
 

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Sounds sweet and hard work lol. I'll give it a go :woo:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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just download the pdf from the dj bible downloads section and get started. im on the conversation portion of this, about to finish that up this week
 

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JohnChops said:
just download the pdf from the dj bible downloads section and get started. im on the conversation portion of this, about to finish that up this week
totally forgot about the frikkin PDF!!!! ah well saves me time later! lesson learned.:crackup:
 

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Im down as well.
 

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Purefilth said:
totally forgot about the frikkin PDF!!!! ah well saves me time later! lesson learned.:crackup:

hahah you typed up that whole thing ?! Damn man, oh well. Ill post some of my stuff here too just to keep the thread updated.

Itll also be on my journal thread. Cant wait to get back on campus tomorrow to get some convos
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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