"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dj Bootcamp Week 4!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Alright here we are man!!!!!!

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Time to make some huge progress this is the big week. K here's the link
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.pdf

This'' really get our confidence way up their through the roof and make some real changes. And this'll be a hell of a lot of fun.

I did finish week 3 but not as well as I wanted so I gotta really make up for it this week.

Alright let's do this.

BTW. lets check out the other week 3 thread stay in touch with those guys.


This week is the home stretch all down hill from here.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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HMMM. nothing much to report today went out it's was fairly un-good. i need to chang things up a bit and things in the rest of my life were not great last week I need to improve that which I will do the next few days get things back on track which'll definetly really help me out and up my confidence and get me feeling good. Plus I am going to start some visualization to help me out.
 

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Alright now where getting to the part where the fun begins, i'll be posting every day to keep track at my progress.

It was raining heavy today, I didn't leave the house till I had to go to work and afther that I did Jiu-jitsu. Nothing to report actually.
 

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OK. Today my day was pretty good. Got 2 convos with girls. One was a approach but an easy situation. On the approach one I didn't attempt a close cuz honestly we didn't get along at all. She like my stories and would laugh alot but she was b1tchy during most of it and I didn't like her much and she didn't like me.

But the last few days had been a dip for me. But I was feeling good again and confident and I am tweaking things up more and getting other areas of my life better so things should get good.
 

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I'm feeling like sh1t aswell probably because I haven't done anything productive today, i'm going to get up early tomorrow and get some exercise going on, lets build some momentum and get those # closes.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bump. don't really have anything to report on I need ways to get around and travel.
 

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K found a new location I am going to today. I got some other areas of my life back on track and am feeling good got that solid base again. I'll let you know how it goes when I get back.
 

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Guys, keep up the good work. I am kinda in a really weird phase right now, especially after getting my head all screwed up by one the girls I had in my sights here. I'm going to keep working on approaching since I pretty much stopped after those first three #'s.

I think I am going to resume this when I get back to college next month. Since I'll be leaving here in a few weeks....honestly it's going to be a really emotional goodbye for everyone I've met because I've had a great summer here but probably won't be back for a long time. I've been meeting some new people but I keep hating to have to say "well yeah I'm here for the summer but have to go home in a few weeks."

Anyways so I'm putting this on pause for now, but I am still going to keep approaching. In fact I think I'm going to hit up the local beach tomorrow, because 2 girls I talked on Tuesday there told me it's a good place to meet people and play volleyball/basketball.
 

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Jb . Stopping the bootcamp is ok. But make sure you continue to make approaches and work on yourself while you are their it's such a perfect opportunity for you to change and come back to college next year a new man. Invest the time and effort now and then reap the rewards when you get back to college. And work on all aspects of your life not just approaching girls. Best of luck to you.
 

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Internets been down.

Well I got a few short convos and some greetings. No matter what happens I make sure to maintain these abilities I am glad they are staying with me once I get the ability to approach easily I'll do the same. When I went out to work on this I went to the wrong location by accident not many opportunitys all of em were in groups and I felt un-confident that day and basically just didn't have the balls. I am not surprised I didn't finish the week cuz I barely did last week I thigured why stay back at week 3 since it's no big deal if I just went to week 4 and failed that instead.

The good news though is I improved my social life a real good amount and got the rest of my life back on track. I had some really un-good influences and one in perticular which I cut out I noticed the less I am exposed to them the more confident I feel and the better everything goes. That source hates to see me suceed and always would use any insult possible to take my confidence away. I was spending time with that person during the last few weeks that have been less great (still good though I am too good for the effect to be huge). But anyway I cut that person out totally a few days ago and my confidence has gone way up again I am feeling real good today and better everyday I am seperate.

So I basically got everything in my life back on track and moveiing in the right direction. I am really feeling confident today.

So I am feeling good and pumped to do week 4 again and make some more huge confidence improvements. And it's great 4 weeks and one failure in and my drive to do this and improve is at the highest it's been right now.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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