"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chosen1

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I decided that at the end of this month I will start the first lesson of the DJ bootcamp.I'm a little nervous and apprehensive. I will be cross refrenencing with a new myspace I am creating to get my story out. I will not reference this site just my progress experience and new Ideas. That is pretty much it. I just decided to treat don juaning as a hobby. I will post my first field report October 1st 2009. you guys can reach contact me with any tips just PM me first thanks and wish me good luck cause I'm gonna need it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

AlexLefty

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Chosen1 said:
I decided that at the end of this month I will start the first lesson of the DJ bootcamp.I'm a little nervous and apprehensive. I will be cross refrenencing with a new myspace I am creating to get my story out. I will not reference this site just my progress experience and new Ideas. That is pretty much it. I just decided to treat don juaning as a hobby. I will post my first field report October 1st 2009. you guys can reach contact me with any tips just PM me first thanks and wish me good luck cause I'm gonna need it.
So you ARE doing the bootcamp in this forum? I'm confused lol. And why at the end of the month?

Me and a couple friends just started our highschool boot camp today, you can look there if you're nervous, you might get some inspiration!
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1732032#post1732032
 

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Congrats Bro its really good to Hear that Good luck with yoiur journey.

I myself have recently found this site, I looked over the bootcamp but mostly stay in the forums and the Dj Bible.

I have noticed an increase in confidence.

I am really anti social cause of the fact i blush and if i get embarressed or nervous or overexcited i break out in the nasty rash on neck and chest area.

Through these forums i have found great information and i have been a sponge and soaked up quite a bit.

I'm jsut rambling now, but anyway man maybe we can keep each other posted and encourage each other to continue.

MR. Djlarrysmooth Out
 
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