"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dj boot camp: the journey begins!

flint

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Are we just following the standard dj bootcamp or were there different things you picked out specific to this?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sexyfaceme

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Standard bootcamp but individuals are adding there own little exercises depending on their goal and present situation.
 

ChalengeGuyFan

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How did you guys do?

Me... not so good. I am very confident about holding eye contact, but the majority of people aren't.
I have saluted many of the people who I established EC with, some of those who didn't, but overall I am far from 50 hi's.

I found out that I care much less about looking at people on the street than I did some while ago and that fewer people check me out than they did in the past. For some reason, I seem less approachable than in the past.

Apart from a very appealing college girl, who I basically eye-****ed with, there isn't another situation worth mentioning.



There's room for improvement, but I'll be starting week 2 anyway.



Let's see some other reports!
 

flint

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Flint Week One

Hey did anyone go through with this? It looked like a lot of people signed up and then never did anything...

So anyways I got my 50 hi's and practiced holding eye contact so week 1 down.

The first 29 I got just through going about my business, the last 21 I got by going to the mall and just doing it.

Today I changed my beard into a goatee so I was going up to people and telling them that I had a beard and turned it into a goatee and asking their opinions. I got all positive feedback although nobody knew what I looked like with the beard.

I pulled some pretty ridiculous approaches in doing this. At one point I was waiting for my coffee at a starbucks and all of the 4 girls working behind the counter were giving me feedback and things like that.

So overall it was pretty good and pretty easy to do. The only thing that really sucked was that when I got back I happened to mention to my rents that I approached people and asked them about my new goatee (I didn't explain anything about the excersize I was doing for boot camp) and they told me I was weird and creepy.

Anyways I really hope more than just two people went through and did this as week 1 is the easiest week. It only gets worse!
 
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