I want to start a bootcamp for this coming fall. I am in school,and I figure it would be a great time to do one. If anyone is interested let me know. I have done one before but never finished it. So this time I am ready!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
dj boot camp anyone?
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- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I'd almost say yes, but I'll probably just be doing lots of party/night club game and social circle stuff. Doesn't make too much sense to walk around town for 5 hours trying to find at least 20 hot girls (10 to reject you, 10 numbers) when there's parties/bars/clubs full of them 3+ nights a week.
Let me know how it goes though. I think the self bootcamp is a really interesting idea for learning day game, despite some problems.
Let me know how it goes though. I think the self bootcamp is a really interesting idea for learning day game, despite some problems.
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I'll give it a shot. I figure it can't decrease my odds of getting laid. I'm a below afc by the way.
Just curious, what is the end result of this? I'm not looking to get laid every night but I am looking to find someone (although with standards).
I want a girl that is hot (i find about 40% of the college population meets the quota) and with a good personality (harder to figure out since I really don't know how the average person is). I'd like to say: high maintance girls, those who try to impose belief on me, those that cry about their problems or those girls that are obsessed with celebrities and stupid **** are out. No pun intended, but Doable?
Just curious, what is the end result of this? I'm not looking to get laid every night but I am looking to find someone (although with standards).
I want a girl that is hot (i find about 40% of the college population meets the quota) and with a good personality (harder to figure out since I really don't know how the average person is). I'd like to say: high maintance girls, those who try to impose belief on me, those that cry about their problems or those girls that are obsessed with celebrities and stupid **** are out. No pun intended, but Doable?
Yea matt I see what your saying, but I just feel like I want to complete it. I tried a year ago, and I want to see if I can complete it this time since a whole year has gone by. For though man, it won't take 5 hours tooo find hot girls. I live in fla by the beach. Girls are plentyfull just like the fish!!
Hey jew!jkjk, he end result is what you make of it. Maybe you will figure out alot about yourself and your game, maybe you will get a girl you connect with. It is all on you and what YOU get out of it.
I am starting monday
Hey jew!jkjk, he end result is what you make of it. Maybe you will figure out alot about yourself and your game, maybe you will get a girl you connect with. It is all on you and what YOU get out of it.
I am starting monday
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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[sarcasm]How dare you call me a jew! There's nothing worse than being called a jew! What an insult, especially considering my username is jewish penguin.[/sarcasm]
Awesome. I just checked out the high school boot camp but haven't seen any other and is there a game plan, challenge or something to be completed? I would state that I would take any task that you are planning, but I don't know how experienced you are or is it sort of like we all start in the beginning, like in military boot camp where we are broken down and then built up.
Awesome. I just checked out the high school boot camp but haven't seen any other and is there a game plan, challenge or something to be completed? I would state that I would take any task that you are planning, but I don't know how experienced you are or is it sort of like we all start in the beginning, like in military boot camp where we are broken down and then built up.
Cool, let me know how it goes.cool dude said:
I think this is the bootcamp he's talking about.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.pdf
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awesome matt. thanks. I think I'll do a bit of a pre-journal stuff on response to the articles
article #1: I have given up masturbating for a week, however I was particulary stressed out and tired and really didn't have much to do so I spent most of the day playing flash games, watching youtube, hulu videos, and reading pointless internet arguments. Didn't work out or anything. My fault, shouldn't have been so lazy. Not a good day for me. I hope that I do not do this again.
article #2: On being a man
1) Physique: I'm not fat but I'm not strong. I'll take steps into working out and eating plenty of protein (i'm a vegetarian so its critical that I have my protein intake).
2) Emotions: I think I let things build up to much today, however I also felt like I should have exercised today as well, since I usually find its a good way to reduce stress. Don't think I have the best sense of humor either.
3) Social: I rarely backtalk about people, but at the same time I don't really stand up for someone who is being back-stabbed either, so could use some work.
Passion: My hobbies include running and jiu-jitsu (with some mixed martial arts). I really enjoy jiu-jitsu. Its my new favorite sport. Jowever I'm not good at it yet, but would like to get better at it. I'm also a chemical engineering student, however it's really hard to be passionate as a student. I'll study and do the homework, but its not really 'interesting'. I usually draw a blank when people ask me what I want to do with it, so maybe I should give that question some thought or even switch majors
1) Does not go through life walking on eggshells: Not me yet. I don't take what I want but don't particularly know what I want yet.
2) Focuses on dream: I have a hobby but not a 'career' dream.
3) Does not apologize for his desire: Don't really express it that much.
4) Tries to always win in what he does: I actually am quite competitive, however you really can't win at everything since someone will always be better than you at something (even if you are better at most)
5) Has deep convictions that allow him to be a possible leader: Again doesn't really describe me that well either.
6) Knows where he is going in Life: NO
7) Never loses his passion, for that would be the death of his soul: Describes me a bit.
8) Never feels he has to prove himself to anyone: Don't think that's me either.
9) Seeks to solve problems then to place blame: I'd say I'm like that.
article #1: I have given up masturbating for a week, however I was particulary stressed out and tired and really didn't have much to do so I spent most of the day playing flash games, watching youtube, hulu videos, and reading pointless internet arguments. Didn't work out or anything. My fault, shouldn't have been so lazy. Not a good day for me. I hope that I do not do this again.
article #2: On being a man
1) Physique: I'm not fat but I'm not strong. I'll take steps into working out and eating plenty of protein (i'm a vegetarian so its critical that I have my protein intake).
2) Emotions: I think I let things build up to much today, however I also felt like I should have exercised today as well, since I usually find its a good way to reduce stress. Don't think I have the best sense of humor either.
3) Social: I rarely backtalk about people, but at the same time I don't really stand up for someone who is being back-stabbed either, so could use some work.
Passion: My hobbies include running and jiu-jitsu (with some mixed martial arts). I really enjoy jiu-jitsu. Its my new favorite sport. Jowever I'm not good at it yet, but would like to get better at it. I'm also a chemical engineering student, however it's really hard to be passionate as a student. I'll study and do the homework, but its not really 'interesting'. I usually draw a blank when people ask me what I want to do with it, so maybe I should give that question some thought or even switch majors
1) Does not go through life walking on eggshells: Not me yet. I don't take what I want but don't particularly know what I want yet.
2) Focuses on dream: I have a hobby but not a 'career' dream.
3) Does not apologize for his desire: Don't really express it that much.
4) Tries to always win in what he does: I actually am quite competitive, however you really can't win at everything since someone will always be better than you at something (even if you are better at most)
5) Has deep convictions that allow him to be a possible leader: Again doesn't really describe me that well either.
6) Knows where he is going in Life: NO
7) Never loses his passion, for that would be the death of his soul: Describes me a bit.
8) Never feels he has to prove himself to anyone: Don't think that's me either.
9) Seeks to solve problems then to place blame: I'd say I'm like that.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
OK, if you guys haven't looked at the dj bootcamp I suggest you do so. This is an 8 week course, and it gets tougher with every week. Read all material to help you, and then complete the obejctives by the end of the week, and post your stories here. Do not post them on your field journal if you have one. Let that be separate. Now going out for an hour and staring at people seems a little to much and weird, so for this one, combine the hellos and looking people in the eye.
ok guys, post your reports, and good luck!
ok guys, post your reports, and good luck!