dj bible only for healthy people

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i believe the dj bible can help.
But i have a friend who is 23 never got a gf because he has a genetic desease called Neurofibromatosis, lumps appear in the body, many surgeries needed, he did 9 so far. He in the last year did 3 surgeries and is facing chemo and radiotherapy.
He is an awesome friend, with a great heart, polite, a real gentleman. He is scared of the moment he will have to tell the girl LTR about the problems he is facing (you cannot live in a lie).

I feel bad for him, and I dont know how to help him.

If any girls in the forum please help so i can help him.....

 

[diablo]

Originally posted by crazyman50000
You say its a LTR, but you never said how long it's lasted or how deep they seem in with each other.

No - he was saying when he gets in a LTR. At the current stage (from what I read in the post) he hasn't ever had a g/f due to this condition.

My thoughts on it are this: It sucks, but there isn't a thing that can be done about it. There are tons of people out there with worse conditions (though it's all subjective, I suppose) who are managing. If a guy in a wheelchair can get a girlfriend, then who's to say that your someone with that disease can't, either? How about those burn victims who have scars covering 1/4 of their body? What about people with deformities? Leukemia? Turrets syndrome? etc etc etc...

Keep in mind that it's not just handsome hunks trying to use the techniques in the DJB. In fact, virtually the only people who are using it are the ones who weren't as successful (otherwise we wouldn't ever have found this place in the first place!) Don't let the disease keep you from feeling like you can ever attract a girl; that's utter bullsh*t.

 

[quest]

Originally posted by diablo
Don't let the disease keep you from feeling like you can ever attract a girl; that's utter bullsh*t.

i know for example, my younger brother has psorisis, know idea how to spell it. but that is kinda like little red scabs all over his chest/back/arms/legs dead skin kinda peeling off him at all times.. he's 19.. been dealing with this since probably 15 or 16.. be pretty hard to develope confidence when it'd be really hard to take ur clothes off infront of someone.
without confidence it'd be pretty hard to get a girlfriend.

 

[DeathDealer]

is there a question from this post? or is this just another whiny rant.

whiny rant.

 

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Thats what I tell him, that he will eventually find somebody. But I also see his point. Imagine if you get a girl and then she tells you.
As for the guy in the weelchair a girl sees it. But going through 2 cancers in the last year is pretty hard for him, especially knowing that with neurofibromatosis it can appear again anywhere in his body.
He is concerned now in beating this thing.

When I see him I realize that, we who are completely healthy cannot complain of things in life. Just put yourselfs in his position. What would you do?