"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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tennisbuck12

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This chick and myself have been on 5 dates so far and we're suppose to get together tonight, since I'm going out of town this weekend. She has a busy job and told me the other day that we might have to play it be ear, to see if she has time to get together tonight, but she hopes so. Would you guys text her today to see if she has time or make her text you? If she doesn't text should I just be a ghost?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Let her text you. You are not the one that has to be accomidated. If she texts late tell her you made other plans and you will hit her up when you get back in town. If she doesn't text then wait for her to contact you.
 
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