"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Divorced Women...with kids...more fun?

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I have to ask this because its come up in discussions with buddies and I saw a show on it recently as well.

I know some on this board shy away from the single moms because they believe that they are just looking for a replacement dad for their kids. Obviously this is a generalization and does not apply to every woman. In fact in the right circumstances these divorced MILFS can be quite a lot of fun. If you think about it every other weekend when the kid is with the ex she gets to go out and party. Get wild and nuts. I do think a lot of these ladies do let loose when they can. In addition, some of them aren't looking for a relationship because they are slightly bitter or wary of men due to the divorce. They are just looking for some fun (one night stand).

So I;m asking you DJ's...anyone experience this? I've kind of seen it 1st hand myself. They kind of act like wh*res when the kid(s) are gone and then return to their motherly ways the rest of the time. Oh and also, some of these ladies DON'T want you to get introduced to their children. They want that buffer. They don't want you involved in their kids lives. They simply want to have a good time and party with no real strings attached. Some of these women make good F buddies.

Has anyone witnessed this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ozzfest,

Divorced women with kids can be fun because they want an escape from their 'adult' responsibilities. I have listened to some of my friends that have been involved with divorced ladies and they say on average it is fun as long as you keep everything fun and 'happening'. More oft than not though, they are out on the prowl also, so do not be surprised if you find out they are bedding a couple other guys when you are not around ( Funny story behind that one ).

Other than that, as I have told to some friends about topics like this, if it is something that fits your lifestyle, and you do not mind age/kids then go for it. Whatever makes you a happy DJ you know.

Keep your head up, have fun with the milfs, and stay confident.
 

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yes Kruez it sounds like you have similar tales about the divorcees. I never said to get in a relationship with them. Just fun. And oh boy can they be fun. In fact sometimes they can make it easy on you because they DON'T want you to meet their kids. So that takes that element out of the mix and you don't have to worry about it. Just have fun with them.

And like I said because they are only allowed to have that fun almost every other week because of those motherly responsibilities...they reeeeally let loose
 

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kreuz said:
Divorced women with kids can be fun because they want an escape from their 'adult' responsibilities...
Wanting to escape and acting upon it are two different things. How often have you come across single mothers (who weren't batty) that actually acted upon their dreams of escape?
 
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