"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Divorced men are a good catch

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What does sosuave think about this article? Divorced men are a good catch! My favorite part is from Jane Roder.

https://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/divorced-men-a-good-catch-report-20120618-20iyo.html

According to dating coach Jane Roder, there's now more of a stigma attached to 40-something bachelors than there is to divorcés the same age. "My personal view is that the older a man is, if he's single and never been married, he's perceived as having commitment issues," she says. "The single man who's never committed, there's a perception of – why not – why hasn't he done that? Especially in a place like Melbourne, where's there's an excess of women," she says.


Why hasn’t he done that? For the same reason women aren’t virgins before marriage. o_O
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Whatever a woman says to the whole world, don't believe a single word she says.

It's likely that she does the opposite.
This post should be starred, if that was possible.

But on the other hand, most men also do the opposite of what they publicly say LOL
 

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Everyone man is a good catch provided he's not a loser. Men are the one's that have to have ambition and go out and do things. Women think they are all that because they look good for a little while- the time will come when they won't even have that and then?? Men need to adopt this mentality and then everything will change. You won't wilt in the prescence of a semi good looking woman ever again for the reason I stated ---- she gets her validation from looking good, something she didn't even EARN, it was given at birth. You got guys out there with like 150 IQ's and degrees in like engineering who start stammering and stuttering at the process of having to approach a woman. That woman should thank the stars said guys even give her the time of day. Men have to wake up from their nap and reclaim their power.
 

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We're talking about 40 yrs old women on 40 yrs old men...Im not 40 but I have plenty of reason to believe that they want nothing to do with women their own age.

So now 40yrs old men need to be concerned about what 40yrs old women thing about them....really?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"It's not about divorce, it's if someone's emotionally available," says Jayne.
Hit the bullseye there Jayne - I ask myself the same thing. How emotionally available will someone be who by their mid 20s has been with multiple dozens of men from beaches, snapchat, bars, jobs, tinder, school, vacations, instagram, clubs and parties since age 14-16? Is it even worth trying to make something with a woman like that?
 
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What does sosuave think about this article? Divorced men are a good catch! My favorite part is from Jane Roder.

https://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/divorced-men-a-good-catch-report-20120618-20iyo.html

According to dating coach Jane Roder, there's now more of a stigma attached to 40-something bachelors than there is to divorcés the same age. "My personal view is that the older a man is, if he's single and never been married, he's perceived as having commitment issues," she says. "The single man who's never committed, there's a perception of – why not – why hasn't he done that? Especially in a place like Melbourne, where's there's an excess of women," she says.


Why hasn’t he done that? For the same reason women aren’t virgins before marriage. o_O
What do I think? It's essentially the subtle beta male shaming tactic. A insinuating variance of suggesting a man that has committed and failed in a divorce is more valuable (despite the extraction of make resources by women & the state) then the man who never has at forty. It's easier to convert a house broken dog again then one who has lived in the wilderness.

Leonardo Decaprio comes to mind but, due to. Money, aesthetics, looks, social status, etc women will still come in any event. Most men forty + who haven't married likely never will. It's women posturing. Rather then pointing out the problem of divorce, family court, and the parade of free resources. Of course, it's female victimhood, it's forty + unmarried man isn't 'manning up' in self sacrifice for the female biological strategy.

What if someone suggested, maybe a woman could add value? Learn to be feminine. Learn how to cook and clean. Instead, it's high kill count. It's children out of wedlock. It's cratered smv. It's baby fever. It's student loans in ridiculous majors like women studies or liberal arts.

The dream is not pedaling to the female biological strategy. It's seeking self knowledge. It's exploring consciousness. It's the journey not the destination.

I have a post coming. It is the first of its kind. Stay tuned.

This post should be starred, if that was possible.

But on the other hand, most men also do the opposite of what they publicly say LOL
True but why?

As a free thinker, as someone who is swinging the ****ing hammer, on my purpose in life, out getting baes but, not to the detriment of my being; it's pretty telling.

A sentiment I swear by in the corporate/biz world is that, 'I haven't met the right one. Maybe one day!'



In actuality, nothing could be farthest from the the truth.


I've had Freudian slips/parapraxis before. A sudden slip of the tongue. Red pill awareness and years of pickup seeping out. It bleeds into other areas of life.

At thirty, in a girl power, #metoo and female victimhood on steroids society, I cannot be as so foolish to allow for said school boy error(s). Don't do it but, obviously, act accordingly.

It's covert. It's like sloot gonna sloot. She's sleeping around but, bet your ass, she's putting on the good girl shtick real thick. Cucks eat it up.


Pedaling red pill, mgtow and pickup openly via social media and or I. The corporation biz world is absolutely retarded.

  1. 99% of most men aren't ready to Unplug
  2. Women despite perpetuating theur SMV will cling to an ideology that cheers her off the cliff
  3. No amount of game or DJ lifestyle will save you from a public shaming and flogging
  4. Take the path of least resistance.
In the words of Bruce Lee, 'be like water.' A cuck will scream fraudin. He'll be the male feminist who cannot compete in the dominance hierarchy so, he clings in cowardice to the persona of ally.

But no really fellas. I haven't met the right one yet.

 

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I think it comes down to 2 things: First, the fact that some woman has married him means that there must be some level of value. Second, the fact that he got married means that he isn't a "confirmed bachelor" playboy. It's just a data point, but one data point is better than nothing.
 

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I think it comes down to 2 things: First, the fact that some woman has married him means that there must be some level of value. Second, the fact that he got married means that he isn't a "confirmed bachelor" playboy. It's just a data point, but one data point is better than nothing.
Yes, it does confirm his preselection status and adds in his potential availability factor, but doesn’t confirm anything about his catch quality.
 
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What does sosuave think about this article? Divorced men are a good catch! My favorite part is from Jane Roder.

https://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/divorced-men-a-good-catch-report-20120618-20iyo.html

According to dating coach Jane Roder, there's now more of a stigma attached to 40-something bachelors than there is to divorcés the same age. "My personal view is that the older a man is, if he's single and never been married, he's perceived as having commitment issues," she says. "The single man who's never committed, there's a perception of – why not – why hasn't he done that? Especially in a place like Melbourne, where's there's an excess of women," she says.


Why hasn’t he done that? For the same reason women aren’t virgins before marriage. o_O
women love divorced men because it's like taking in an adult dog, he's already house broken. most divorced men are yes men, doing whatever the hell a woman wants. most men will get burned multiple times before they learn.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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