"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Divorced in a different country

userNotExist

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Hi guys,

Summarizing the story, I moved from my latin country to Europe with my wife, unfortunately she did not adapt and we decided to broke out, this process went without major problems.

Now divorced and in a different country without many friends, I began to work out on some goals, my idea would be to focus totally on improving myself and eventually going out with some girls. The big problem and that I had some difficulty in meeting new girls (the idiom is being a great problem).

I have always been someone very focused on my goals and I end up spending all my time in them, I have worked in my career (courses, self-study, job interviews), training almost daily 5'8 152 lbs - my goal now is 168, I need to improve my social skills, I can easily talk with girls more I can not reach some unknown girl.

At the moment I'm in a big dilemma, should I still focused on my goals or should I spent some time chasing some girls? Something inside says it would be a waste of time for now. By the way, I'm 28 years old.

*Sorry for the english mistakes, I've been working on this.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Spaz

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Focus on goals = success.

Don't worry abt women.

Their ability to smell out successful men is second to none.
 
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