"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Divorced in a different country

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Hi guys,

Summarizing the story, I moved from my latin country to Europe with my wife, unfortunately she did not adapt and we decided to broke out, this process went without major problems.

Now divorced and in a different country without many friends, I began to work out on some goals, my idea would be to focus totally on improving myself and eventually going out with some girls. The big problem and that I had some difficulty in meeting new girls (the idiom is being a great problem).

I have always been someone very focused on my goals and I end up spending all my time in them, I have worked in my career (courses, self-study, job interviews), training almost daily 5'8 152 lbs - my goal now is 168, I need to improve my social skills, I can easily talk with girls more I can not reach some unknown girl.

At the moment I'm in a big dilemma, should I still focused on my goals or should I spent some time chasing some girls? Something inside says it would be a waste of time for now. By the way, I'm 28 years old.

*Sorry for the english mistakes, I've been working on this.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Focus on goals = success.

Don't worry abt women.

Their ability to smell out successful men is second to none.
 
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