Dukester101
Don Juan
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I'm no secret to the DJ boards, and in fact, I used to be a Master DJ here back "in the day." I went by the username of Dukester. I forgot my password and e-mail address that I used when I signed here over 6 years ago.
A lot has happened since 2004/2005 and I don't remember anybody or anything on these boards. In fact, this whole place has changed SO much since I last visited.
A little background for those that don't care to delve into my post history under my other username:
I was a ****y, arrogant azzhole to say the least. I was a DJ, and in college I had a lot of success with women. One of my last posts here was about one girl in particular. That girl had a boyfriend and I ended up breaking them up and getting with her. The thing was though, I fell in love.
The relationship started in 2005, and it really took full bloom in late 2005, early 2006. We dated (and lived together) from then till now. We finally ended up getting married in 2008. I joined the military later that year (at 24), and it really fvcked up our marriage and our relationship.
Now, I'm currently deployed to Iraq and she's sent me the divorce papers in the mail. My question to all you guys is... how do you cope with this? How can you move on after having a 5+ year relationship?
I feel stupid for coming back to the boards with a question like this knowing full well the guy that I used to be... a successful DJ who knew all the tips, tricks and successful things to get women. I feel like I've lost everything, and all hope is gone for even picking up girls again. What pisses me off is that I used to be able to do it. So how do I get back into the game again, and are there any knew things that I need to learn, or should I just "re-learn" the basics again?
Thanks for any and all replies from the DJs here. And here's hoping that I can find the game I had 5 years ago when I was a young, arrogant DJ. Also, Sorry for the long post.
A lot has happened since 2004/2005 and I don't remember anybody or anything on these boards. In fact, this whole place has changed SO much since I last visited.
A little background for those that don't care to delve into my post history under my other username:
I was a ****y, arrogant azzhole to say the least. I was a DJ, and in college I had a lot of success with women. One of my last posts here was about one girl in particular. That girl had a boyfriend and I ended up breaking them up and getting with her. The thing was though, I fell in love.
The relationship started in 2005, and it really took full bloom in late 2005, early 2006. We dated (and lived together) from then till now. We finally ended up getting married in 2008. I joined the military later that year (at 24), and it really fvcked up our marriage and our relationship.
Now, I'm currently deployed to Iraq and she's sent me the divorce papers in the mail. My question to all you guys is... how do you cope with this? How can you move on after having a 5+ year relationship?
I feel stupid for coming back to the boards with a question like this knowing full well the guy that I used to be... a successful DJ who knew all the tips, tricks and successful things to get women. I feel like I've lost everything, and all hope is gone for even picking up girls again. What pisses me off is that I used to be able to do it. So how do I get back into the game again, and are there any knew things that I need to learn, or should I just "re-learn" the basics again?
Thanks for any and all replies from the DJs here. And here's hoping that I can find the game I had 5 years ago when I was a young, arrogant DJ. Also, Sorry for the long post.