Divorce, money and what to do..

[the_one]

I am coming off of a divorce and have 2 kids.. I pay quite a bit of child support, and I am surviving but don't have much extra money.. My dating/sex life hasn't been to terrible, but the quality just isn't where I want it. I have been trying some things out that I have been reading and have ran into a few problems.. First, I have my kids %50 of the time so my dating and interaction time is cut in half.. I don't bring any girls around my kids and don't intend to unless I meet someone very special, and then it may take quite some time.. Also, I go a few weeks doing fairly well getting numbers and dates then I either can't afford to go on them or don't have enough time.. I have tried cheap things or moneyless dates, but it doesn't work everytime..

Is anyone else in the same boat, or been through it and have any suggestions?

 

[KarmaSutra]

My divorce was final a year ago and it took some vast changes to my lifestyle as I had lived it but brother, IT WAS WORTH IT! You have to make the decision to change and not live a life of mediocrity.

I have an eleven year old daughter with whom I am still very much a part of her daily life. There is life after divorce. The choice you make is whether or not to sac up and live it.

 

[the_one]

I am going on with my life, and probably am having the hardest trouble changing lifestyles.. Still, with my life needing to go on so does my social and sexual life.. I guess I am looking for anyone with any suggestions on how they managed to date on a budget. Especially while trying to have many opportunities.. Often times it seems like I am going out on dates 2 or 3 times a week with different girls and I can't afford it.. So, I have stopped.. Now I am wondering where to start again. I know I don't have to go out and spend a lot of money, but lots of times I do.