"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Divorce Court: He's too nice

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This is great; funny and educational.
 

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Yeah because Divorce Court is totally real. Even the bailiff is real, he's not a paid actor with a plastic gun. Even the audience definitely doesn't get paid to be there in that real court as hired extras, it's totally not an arbitration court which pays both the defendant and the plaintiff for their appearances.

It's really real television.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Alle_Gory said:
Yeah because Divorce Court is totally real. Even the bailiff is real, he's not a paid actor with a plastic gun. Even the audience definitely doesn't get paid to be there in that real court as hired extras, it's totally not an arbitration court which pays both the defendant and the plaintiff for their appearances.

It's really real television.
Unfortunately this crap is real. Everyone is paid, but this crap is reality. My uncle was on the dang show.
 

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Uh... Hashbrowns?

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Espi said:
True...or, JUST DON'T GET MARRIED!
There is no benefit to marriage for a man. A woman gets a whole lot but a man gets the ability to have to pay child support for a long time, alimony (Sometimes permanent depending on the time/state,) and loses half of his assets minimum (Circumstances do apply) if, like more than half of all marriages, it goes into divorce.

However if he never marries he only has to shell out child support for the amount of time until the kid is 18 and possibly more if the kid goes to college (A part of the kids FAFSA would get sought out from the biological parent.) Why would a man want that possibility?
 

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Divorce Court is as real as "Entourage". That s--- has more producers than "The Brady Bunch" ever did! Another show that takes advantage of poverty stricken Americans.

You have serious issues if you think that is how things go down. They even sell the rights to such trash to places like Russia. How do I know? Because I watch such Russian language trash! Russian trash is my specialty!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zI2-UUZQ5eQ&feature=youtube_gdata_player
Eh, the Russian version. Gotta love how the guy talks about how he married a virgin (still a big deal to non-Anglos), but she wasn't. Outside of that it is the same s--- as the American version.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The cases are real and the judge are real. But its like a reality tv show they only going show the most outlandish of cases and rarely show the normal ones. Also court is not a lively place to be in its generally very dull and stagnant.

But to op above yeah that woman was worthless.
 
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