"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Diving deeper

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Just looking where I’m at I realized some things. Just saying to one’s self that you have a lot to offer a woman is not really enough. I mean, to cut through a man’s programming. To get it there deep.
Just being rich means nothing or being a beach bum in a van.
Beyond the obvious feel good chemicals that interacting with her gives her.

Is that all there is? I’m not buying it. There needs to be something in there that cuts through. Sure we can talk about getting her to invest, getting her to chase, Yada, Yada, Yada

But what is he really offering her?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A part of me is thinking that he offers her, her birthright to feel what feminine is.
Like a contrast. Like she can only feel those powerfully feminine feelings and state of being when the masculine is present in full power.

She is so encapsulated in the modern world and all the forces that are driving her to be masculine, that the feeling of being a woman again and feeling submissively feminine in a safe place that only masculine can provide.

It’s like the, let’s say beingness of being masculine, actually is what unlocks her. The rest is just technique and hacks devised to get to her core.
 
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