Ditching girls on the first date

[backbreaker]

ironically enough after i left it got her moist lol. she stalked me for a good 2-3 days before having the nerve to just knock on my door one night and wanted to 'make it up to me'. she told me that me walking out on her turned her on and she wanted to have me lol. i fvcked her brains out and never called her again. first, the fact that you had the immatuaity to be chekcing your phone when we are together.. in a movie no less.. A GOOD MOVIE at that lol. i am pretty sure it was quantam of solice. then to be turned on by me doing something like that just shows the mental level this broad was on, and i didn't have time regardless of how cute she was

i can tolerate alot of things, i can even play cat and mouse but i can't tolerate true stupidity. nothing gets me soft faster.

 

[pdx1138]

why bother telling them anything about lack of interest?

If they don't look attractive in person, I simply keep the conversation going for awhile (why not, if nothing else its good practice) then I never contact them again.

 

[backbreaker]

Honor is held only by men, and as men are learning, should only be applied to other men.

Cry and shame all you want, but it was women that created men like this. With all of the bat$hit crazy antics, the flaking after flaking after flaking.

Only a fool abides by honor for creatures such as that.

no one mentions a damn thing about honor or integrity when he girl is flippingh through her facebook account while on a date.

it's like rollo's "yoru fvcked" blog he did a few days ago lol. girl gets on facebook when on a date and shows no interest in her date, normal behavior, he just wasn ot up to her standards. guy shows no interest in girl in girl on date, "you are a jerk with no moral character"

 

[TonyBaloney]

I always park my car outside my bedroom window and sleep with one eye open. I figure if she can get to my car, she may get to my throat... crazy sh*t.

LOL **** man - That crazy betch really got in your head - but joking aside, it can be scary. It took me a couple of years to get over one cranky lunatic - at her house in the country, she set her kids on me, cut up my clothes, phoned all my m8's and told them i attacked her, I then had too get a police escort. This woman then (she was a millionaress BTW) got some thugs on the phone who threatened a hit on me unless i paid her 3 grand back that she gave in the good times.....

Man, when they got the hates for ya, be more paranoid than you would with a manemy....

 

[macallik]

Treating a random female like sh!t is not going to 'get back' at all the women that have flaked on you in the past. That is a sign of insecurity

If we are incompatible, then I will suck it up and endure a few minutes of boredom.

 

[backbreaker]

If someone misreprsents themselves before meeting you, who really is being the rude one?

Your time is your most valuable asset. Treat it as such.

ah danger, but see there is the rub.

see, if you were to be mad that she is misrepresenting hsrelf that by DJ code you are putting expectations on the outcome and becoming too outcome dependent i.e- you are ovbiously screening for a woman not out to have a good time


i mean, i've been on some pretty ****ty dates lol. i have been on a few dates where i kn ew whithin minutes i will never see this woman again, but you know what, that's fine with me, beucase i'm not out looing for a wife anyway. I'm out to simply get out. if i see you again is of no real consequence of how my night goes.

assuming she can talk and pretend to be funny or interesting i can amuse myself or even test some DJ **** out on her for an hour or so



the only thing that will get me to get up and leave is blatant disrespect.

 

[Zarky]

If I meet up with a chick I'm not that into I generally just amp up the sexuality and try to get a SNL (same-night lay) to add to my notch-count. Either she complies or it blows her out and the date is done anyway.

Even if I'm not attracted to a chick, a SNL in itself is enough of a turn-on that I can do it with a chick. Unless she's a super-UG, but then how did you get yourself into that situation in the first place?

 

[Wilko]

Good to see you posting again Zarky. I gather there's no WIFI access from the ex's couch eh?

I didn't think there was any mileage left in this thread but there's been a few more posts so I'll just add this. My choosing to ditch a girl really isn't part of any larger agenda of revenge, it's just a spontaneous decision I make then and there, it's definitely not done for a sadistic thrill. Just means I'd rather be somewhere else, so I make it happen.