"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Disturbing Trend I've Noticed

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Where I live anyway, I've noticed this trend lately in my area. A good number of girls my age (20-25) do NOT want relationships and would prefer just partying and hanging out with friends. I thought it was girls that wanted relationships and had to convince guys to be committed but I'm noticing the exact opposite nowadays. Of course, this trend does not apply to the best looking guys with lots of game, girls will want to be in a relationship with them. But in general, I hear lots of girls that I know say "I'm not interested in dating right now..." "why would I want a boyfriend..." "I'd rather just hang out with friends." And before you all run in and say that these were just excuses cuz I asked them out or something, it wasn't like that at all and it was just hypothetical conversations with friends/acquaintences. And they hold true to their claims, these good looking girls meet lots of guys/have lots of guys attention but never have a boyfriend.

Explain.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why should she have only one d.ck when she can have fun, experiment and have many d.cks..

Can you blame em?

Sigh, times have changed... it is now okay for girlz to be ho'z

truth hurts...
 
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(sigh) Remember the good ole days when women spent most of their time in the kitchen? (smack) Now, snap out of it!
 
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yes.. we as men (dominant figures) imposed rules on our women... think about it, what would u rather do, stay in the kitchen or be free to do what you want.. the barbaric times are coming to an end.. there are places around the world that still impose strict rules on women.. look at saudi arabia...

Point is... it hurts... But it is what is is...
 
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She is making up excuses for not having a guy of her own. Why not, YOU ALL DO IT.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Spider.....read

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She is making up excuses for not having a guy of her own. Why not, YOU ALL DO IT.
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i dont get it.. explain...

by the way

i like the first quote... disagree with the second quote... ENERGY LASTS FOREVER, because as the physics law states, energy cant be created nor destroyed ;)
 
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i dont get it.. explain...

by the way

i like the first quote... disagree with the second quote... ENERGY LASTS FOREVER, because as the physics law states, energy cant be created nor destroyed ;)
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well, when you alone (no g/f) and your with your friends, and they are talking about their g/f and then they ask why you don't have one....most people make up excuses; "oh i don't want one right now, i'd rather get laid with different women" or "there is nobody that i like" or "i'm just not ready for a relationship right now"....it just to make them selvs look less desperate.....you know; seeking social approval.

I know, i do it all the time.

how about notting IN LIFE lasts forever. As in; your happy - you'll get sad, your sad - eventually you'll be happy, you love a woman - one day she'll be gone, your a virgin - one day you'll trip and fall onto a pvssy......
 
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green69 said:
Of course, this trend does not apply to the best looking guys with lots of game, girls will want to be in a relationship with them.
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LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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Sigh, times have changed... it is now okay for girlz to be ho'z
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Times haven't changed as much as you think--only in the sense that we're more open about our sexuality nowadays.

thinks have ALWAYS been like this, it's just that BEFORE, everyone would keep it on t he down low.

hell, just look at some of the icons of times past: Marilyn Monroe? She was a FREAK! Seriously, read a little about her and you'll see that. And a ton of other women have ALWAYS been that way.

Nothings changed, just nowadays it's so open for everybody to see and it seems like things have changed, but they haven't.
 
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People are staying younger longer. It's a fact of life. Girls who are 25 act like they're 15, girls who are 35 act like they're 25.

Don't focus on finding the girl you're going to marry any more. Just play the game until you find one who you just naturally end up spending all your time with...not romantically, but just having fun together.

"Love" comes and "love" goes. It's hardly permanent. You want to settle down, find someone you LIKE.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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spider_007 said:
how about notting IN LIFE lasts forever. As in; your happy - you'll get sad, your sad - eventually you'll be happy, you love a woman - one day she'll be gone, your a virgin - one day you'll trip and fall onto a pvssy......
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hahahhaha @ trip and fall into pu.ssy... :) thats what you tell the judge, it wasnt your fault... hahahha

yo, the quote, if you put LIFE into it, then it works, and yes, I agree....
 
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This girl that broke my heart and made it tougher told me something similar. She said something to the affect (can't remember) of, "I just want to fvck a lot of guys". Ok she didn't say that but she might as well have. Seriously you have to have a lot going for you and get a girl to think your better then her (I hope you are) anyways. If bored or disinterested they will mess around with you but no relationship.
 
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Times haven't changed as much as you think--only in the sense that we're more open about our sexuality nowadays.
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thats what i said... i didnt say girlz werent hoz..... i said that its now OKAY for girlz to be hoz... as in be open about it.. (in the old days girlz were more classy about it)
 
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On The Money!

squirrels said:
People are staying younger longer. It's a fact of life. Girls who are 25 act like they're 15, girls who are 35 act like they're 25.

Don't focus on finding the girl you're going to marry any more. Just play the game until you find one who you just naturally end up spending all your time with...not romantically, but just having fun together.

"Love" comes and "love" goes. It's hardly permanent. You want to settle down, find someone you LIKE.
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right on the money... I would just expand LIKE=Compatability
 
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green69 said:
Where I live anyway, I've noticed this trend lately in my area. A good number of girls my age (20-25) do NOT want relationships and would prefer just partying and hanging out with friends. I thought it was girls that wanted relationships and had to convince guys to be committed but I'm noticing the exact opposite nowadays. Of course, this trend does not apply to the best looking guys with lots of game, girls will want to be in a relationship with them. But in general, I hear lots of girls that I know say "I'm not interested in dating right now..." "why would I want a boyfriend..." "I'd rather just hang out with friends." And before you all run in and say that these were just excuses cuz I asked them out or something, it wasn't like that at all and it was just hypothetical conversations with friends/acquaintences. And they hold true to their claims, these good looking girls meet lots of guys/have lots of guys attention but never have a boyfriend.

Explain.
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maybe they're jus hoes and want everyone to kno it....
noting wrong with that, now u kno to avoid them.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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