"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Disrespectful girls

LeonSK

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How do you guys deal with disrespectful girls you are trying to hit on? My friend got a rare name and the girl started making fun of his name. He got really mad. The girl is disrespectful to me too. She's like you smell like garlic (I had my D&G perfume on and I don't have a bad breath so it's absolutely bs...). I just laughed it off. My friend is like you should stand up to it and show the girl she's nothing, tell her upfront. What's your usual reaction when encountering such kind of girls?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sylvester the cat

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i agree with what he says below.
 
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Greasy Pig

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Agree and amplify.
HB: You smell like garlic.
DJ: Thank God! Maybe now you'll stop hitting on me.
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It keeps vampires away. Off you go.
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Yeah I know. It really helps me not smell the bullsht that some women go on with.
 

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Agree and amplify, I agree, acts ironically as an iron-clad deflector.
 
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