"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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bigneil

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This is why, it is why important to have a lot going on. You get to focus on things that are actually progressing. Instead of dealing with her mixed signals/flakyness. I find, life more enjoyable this way. Putting your power/effort into banging your head against a wall, is not wise. Best to move on, and find breakthroughs.
Move on in terms of other women, but God knows the women we love the most are the ones who inspire us to come here and learn more. Looking back at my life, there were 4 or 5 women who inspired me at key moments to learn more.

Working example: When I seduced my current girlfriend, she was awestruck by my knowledge of women. I seduced her and another girl at the same time and pulled off a three-way kiss (only). Afterward they both asked me "How did you do it? How did you hypnotise the two hottest girls here?". I said "By the time a man can read a woman like a book, he needs bifocals". Then I got the hell out of there. It turns out after I left one of the girls said to my (now) girlfriend "you should date him!" She was there for our first kiss (now 3+ months ago) and could sense the chemistry. After our kiss we realized we had met 9 months earlier (and she said she had a crush on me then). Had I not reached the master level, I never would have maintained things. Note the other night I asked her "When did I first make you have an orgasm?" and she said "On the first date." I said "You didn't tell me until the third date!" and she said she didn't want me to have that power over her yet. 3 months later she is gushing with Oxytocin (cuddle chemical). This required years of practice.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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For the last 12 months this guy has in constant contact...i let it all slide because i thought its just a friend thing so no issue, my mind won't let me away from the fact that I think its more. I would be in a store trying to get my girlfriends attention i see her excited and anxious face as she replys with kisses and love heart emoji's completely ignoring my efforts. She will be texting me at work with some abuse over something i didnt do for her mean while shes texting pictures to him and having a great time. They have had clear cut flirting all over facebook since the day we got together. T
Dude, this was all I need to read. You've been played and unfortunately you've allowed it to happen.

Time to grow a spine, some self respect and define some personal standards regards how you allow people to treat you.
 

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this is madness.

OP, this woman has zero interest in you, well, she has a lot of interest in what you can provide that's for sure.

She has zero respect towards you.

She wants to fvck other men.

She thinks your just dumb.



Send her to hell, and never again start a relationship with a woman like this. Are you really this stupid? you're wasting your life.

Jeez..
 

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You are all right and I have taken action thank you for the comments...i feel well supported here thank you all.

The you need to take a break and move out chat has now turned into her mother crying because of me. Her Dad wants to punch my face and her brother would like to lock me up as i'm an abuser.

The road ahead will be difficult to say the least. Call me a sucker but i thought this relationship would work out. I'm heartbroken. But like said here, i need to get a back bone and reclaim my self worth and respect.
 

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You guys need to check the thread his gf made...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bertran. Get rid of this woman. She'll plague you forever dude
No job. No income. Talking to the ex. Invited him over ? WTF
Get some self respect man. Totally unstable and unacceptable behaviour
 

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Dude, this was all I need to read. You've been played and unfortunately you've allowed it to happen.

Time to grow a spine, some self respect and define some personal standards regards how you allow people to treat you.
Bingo.
This girl is shiiiit.

This guy is a successful pilot, he should view himself as a stud and her as a disrespectful ashole.
 
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