“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I filled out this getting to know your friends better survey my friend sent me. After filling it out I sent it to one of my female friends I thought was a friend. She sent it back after filling her's out and commented on the soft drink question. It asked what was your favorite soft drink. I put Rum and Coke. She said that my answer was not a soft drink but an alcholol beverage. So I wrote back and said "Of course it's a soft drink, it all depend on how you drink it. Guy goes up to the bartender and asks for two glasses. One glass with Rum and the other glass with Coke. The guy switches drinks with the girl next to him when she is not looking and begins to talk with her while enjoying his coke". She writes back and says "You odd sad little man". Now I ask you, is this belittling and disrespectful or what? I wrote back and said "I don't play those games. Later". Then blocked her email.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Take a joke bro. "I don't play those games, later" sounds like a line a female would and has recited to me. Men who take women's jokes too seriously are always the ones on the sidelines with their confidence shot down. Take women seriously and you'll drive yourself nuts for the rest of your life.
 

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WC2 said:
Take a joke bro. "I don't play those games, later" sounds like a line a female would and has recited to me. Men who take women's jokes too seriously are always the ones on the sidelines with their confidence shot down. Take women seriously and you'll drive yourself nuts for the rest of your life.
I don't consider odd sad little man a joke.
 

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AJTD said:
I don't consider odd sad little man a joke.
Start considering it a joke. Like I said, what women say must be taken in stride. Get mad at a woman because she made fun of you? Hopeless. Don't take a offense and maybe give her a little taste of her own medicine in return? More like it.

Getting mad at women is like going against the grain. It's a lose lose situation. But still, men still do it.
 

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Anytime someone puts you down, they are trying to take from you. They get their power by having power over others. Without that power over others, they have no power. So don't give her any power. While she can do whatever she wants, you don't have to be there to put up with it.

Do not have too much tolerance when it comes to women and what you allow them to say or do to you. Just shrug it off, and move on to another woman (or women) who actually finds you valuable, and have mutual respect. Don't let people take from you, dude.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i used to have an afc crush on my friend's little sister in my afc days. I was at said friends house yeaterday and his sister was there. She started saying some disrespectful stuff and i'll be honest it bothered m a bit, but only because this is someone ive known for maybe a decade and had afc feelings for. But I was thinking while she was spewing things that i'm better than her (for various reasons) and if anything she's probably insecure with herself and finds humor in trying to knock other people down to her level. I would never give her or anyone else that power. Im too strong for that and really, she can go f*** herself because I don't need anyone's validation. However I must say that I wouldn't even disclose how it made me feel. Id simply make a mental note and act accordingly.
 

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^Exactly. Take it as a joke and if it wasn't then you will find out for sure later. If she really doesn't respect you then fine. She loses out on the guy who's goin to the top! Right? Right?
 

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OP, you did the right thing by blocking her. "You odd sad little man" is very disrespectful if it isn't followed by a smiley or something which clearly indicates it as a joke. If it wasn't followed by such an indicator, don't take it as a joke. Ignore this girl from now on.
 
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