"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Disrespect

Albatross953

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This might seem like a bush league question, but how do you guys deal with female disrespect with women who aren't prospects?

Things like rumours, sarcasm on social media, hens pecking at whether you're a catch?

I mean 80% of the time, these women are friends then they hear you have a woman and they don't like it.

Ignoring the disrespect doesn't sit right and going ghost permanently seems heavy handed.

Keep in mind, these are normally women I would consider below my league.

Thoughts?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Peaks&Valleys

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Albatross953 said:
This might seem like a bush league question, but how do you guys deal with female disrespect with women who aren't prospects?

Things like rumours, sarcasm on social media, hens pecking at whether you're a catch?

I mean 80% of the time, these women are friends then they hear you have a woman and they don't like it.

Ignoring the disrespect doesn't sit right and going ghost permanently seems heavy handed.

Keep in mind, these are normally women I would consider below my league.

Thoughts?
I've dealt with this myself. Honestly, when they're publicly disrespecting you like it's no big thing, and they're just running their mouths in their little groups while other people are listening....

It's a burn brotha.....it's a burn.

From that point on, pay them no heed.

Take care of your business and do your thing. Any petty BS....laugh it off and let the petty squabblers squabble. You may go as far as saying, when one of the loony hen's boyfriends tries to start a conversation with you: "aren't you with (loud annoying worthless fvck face) Julie? 0_o " Then turn your back and walk away.

Do not give them anything. Ignore and do your own thing, eventually they'll succumb to their own miserable little lives.

Be your own man, and don't apologize to anyone about it. Fvck em.
 

Epimanes

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If you give them an inch. They take a mile. Stop giving them that inch. Don't feed them after midnight.

Misery loves company.. They only do that as a reflection of themselves.

If you let it affect you emotionally .. They got what they wanted. A reaction. Don't respond.. Who cares what they think or say. Do you? I never do. Be aloof. View it as childish banter and take the high road. The good catch doesn't have time to waste on things like that. Next!

Epi

Edit: my wife is sick tonight...She has a fever so I'm posting like mad tonight out of boredom.I made her tea after her hot shower and she passed out... The poor thing. She worked hard today Wish I had more than 10 posts in the time limit.
 
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