"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Disrespect not Jealousy

stuka1939

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Lately we have discussed hitting on girls with boyfriends/fiances/ etc.

IMHO, while I see no harm hitting on a girl with a boyfriend, DON"T DO IT when the guy is standing right there.

I THINK IT IS A HUGE SIGN OF DISRESPECT WHEN YOU DO THAT!

I can kind of emphasize with guys when they get pissed and get in fights when a guy tries and picks up their woman right in front of them.

I know you are supposed to play it cool when it happens, but it is disrespectful to the guy.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Single_Sucks

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Talk to the guy, suddenly as if he's your best friend. Suddenly he's not chatting up your girl anymore. Plus you don't look desperate. Do this with your arm around your girl if you like and a big smug smile.

That's one of my faves, worked for me before...what you peeps reckon?
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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I was having a conversation with someone who posted a topic about this. I'm one of the guys that will hit on your girl infront of you. But, I don't hug the girl or put my arm around her and sh!t like that. I'll have a conversation with the girl and maybe some light kino. Usually, they do it to me first. Mostly, I am just conversating.

Am I being disrespectful? Maybe, but I don't go over-board. The boyfriend should check his girlfriend before he checks me. Why? Because, she is the one responding me. The boyfriend should wonder why his girlfriend is so into me. The girlfriend should be telling me she has a boyfriend and isn;t interest. Then, I wouldn't spit anymore game at her. If the girl is married I stay away.

Don't hate the playa hate the game! Or your girlfriend who isn't being so loyal to you...
 
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