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1) Ditch your friends. If they make a fool out of you, you either reply back with an insult or get new friends. They're not like your brain; they're easily replaceable.
2) Stand up for yourself. Don't be creating drama but let them know when enough is enough. Yes, sometimes friends do take it too far without really realizing it. Don't beat their ass but if they're your friends, they'll know not to take it to a point where you get pissed.
3) You are initially given respect but you must earn it to get more. When you first are with your friends, they think you are the **** and so on. After a while, they get to know you more and thats when there is something called the "***** phase" where it seems like each one turns on eachother. Its almost like a way of weeding out the puzzies from the real friends.
4) Don't hang on them. Don't hang with them all the time. Be your own man. If you just hang around with people all the time, they will get sick of you. Its fact. For me, I got friends but there are sometimes days into weeks where I'll never see them or if I do see them, I'll barely talk to them. Result? Friendships stay fresh and you're not getting tired with them and vice versa.
5) Don't let false **** get started about you. I know this. I admitted to masturbating in 10th grade because I knew everyone did it but were too ashamed to admit it. A few days later, I got a rep for beating off at least 5 times a day which isn't true (in reality, its once every 2-3 days if that; its often based around boredom than anything) and soon it got twisted to me being a loser that I was never able to shake off. Now that I'm macking on girls and dating them, my friends are supposedly shocked. Well, looks like they believed their own lie but never let false **** start about you or else your rep will be shot to ****.
6) Have multiple groups of friends. I have three that I have: the jocks (the main ones of my friends), the preps that are basically clean people, and the preps who are basically potheads. I used to have a group of friends that were videogaming nerds but I left them once I realized that all their life is anymore is playing games and then talking about them 24/7. They were socially unappealing. Anyway, these friends are different in case I want to hang out with others.
7) Be friendly to everyone. You get more friends and allies your way. I never was a hit with the ladies but I am seriously one of the most popular kids in school (well, I just left there so I guess I
was one of them) and now come to think of it, I probably have about 40 friends and about another 100-150 that are my allies or acquaintances. I was just cool to people. However the negative stigma kept me back from being a hit with the ladies as well. However it worked for me otherwise.
Just some brief tips.
I have ALOT more friends, but I still spend alot of time by myself
Nothing wrong with that. I often times feel that some of the best moments are spent alone. Here, I'm alone. I usually need at least a half hour of alone time daily. Gives me time to reflect, be online, or write rap.
i also have some new freinds this 10th grade year im afraid i got to "friendly" with at the begginning and now they are starting to turn on me and givin me more crap. (nicknames and whatnot, and just F*ckin just plain disrespectful talk) makes me feel im not doin my job as a DJ
I got a little motto I have that might just be my main one:
Haters are going to hate
Seriously. Haters will hate you if you land HBs and won a million and you're popular with everyone, etc. Haters will hate if you're the opposite; dateless, alone, and broke. Even if you live a normal life, they're going to hate. Its hard for people to like you if they once hated you. Often times its just jealously but sometimes people have their personal rag doll and it might be you. The only real advice I have to give about haters are to ignore them. They prey off of your insecurities. Show that you got none and they'll just be wasting time.
i tried DEMANDING respect and they get all touchy saying crap about aww man we were just playing ur so serious.
My friends used to do that and its their subconscious way of trying to keep you as their *****. They try to pin the problems on
you - saying that
you are taking things too serious. I told them to stop doing that **** or to lighten up on it. They did - briefly. By the end of next week, it'd be the same old **** again and the cycle continues. Its their way of trying to make you responsible for what they're doing.
IMO, its better to be alone than to have a bunch of friends treat you like ****. Seriously. Your ego may not shoot sky high but it'll be better than if you leave those ***** asses behind.
Theyve been messin with me for some reason after i started dating and meeting different beautiful women(not sure why).
They're jealous. Seriously. I'm assuming a lot but they're probably pissed that their personal ***** is out getting attractive ladies while they're playing with themselves or going out with AG (Average girls) When I got a date with that 8, a lot of them tried to go to her and say what was wrong with her and who I was (using their negative ass speak) and she told me about it and I said, "Ignore them. They'll hate on me no matter what happens" and it didn't phase her. They seriously thought they were going to break it off but now its on more than ever. One of the kids who did it has never gotten a date and was threatened with a restraining order because he did stalk a girl in HS two years back. So ignore them and my motto works here more than ever.
think of just about every pop star
Please. They're hardly respected. They pander to preteen girls because they literally don't know any better. They go with a pretty face because pop itself is so superficial that many mature minds dislike it. If pop stars were respected, its because of the amount of units they push off the shelf, the amount of money they have, and the name recognition they have.
