"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Disrespect from girls workmate.

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Basically got told I was a dropkick and that my woman could do better, by a workmate of hers, in front of just the two of us, before he promptly walked off.

Clamied it was a joke from his end (clearly, as both points are untrue), but regardless, I think it was surprisingly low, given its the second time we've met. I think he's one of those people that doesn't have a tact when it comes to taking a joke too far. Other "jokes" in the convo involved her getting banged up by people on a late night train.

I just told her after he left that it was downright rude, and I was x close to going down and kicking the crap out of him. Obviously wasn't the best thing to say, but how do you draw the line of keeping your cool, or kicking ass?

How would you react to this? but more importantly, what would you expect of her? He's a suave gay dude, and used to getting on girls good sides pretty quick, my standards dictate she should see through it however.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I should note... that when a mate did something similar to my girl, I cut him off for months, before he apologised etc.
 

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Wtf why would you tell her it was rude? He basically dissed you hardcore in front of your girl and you didnt do sh1t.

You should have verbally executed him.
 

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Originally posted by Julian
Wtf why would you tell her it was rude? He basically dissed you hardcore in front of your girl and you didnt do sh1t.

You should have verbally executed him.

i'm down with that..
especially if he was gay..

even something like

"dude, trying to break us up so you can have me all for yourself... it still won't happen"
"dude, trying to break us up so you can have me all for yourself... i wouldn't touch ya even if i was gay"

its hard to say without getting an exact quote from him..
but definently should have been verbal back.. even just a "shes smart enough to see how what she's god"

fighting him wouldn't solve anything..


ur girlfriend to her friends - "OOOO my big strong boyfriend 'TheRelic' knocked out my gay workmate! he's so strong"- it aint gonna happen.
 

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The way some gals are these days, I'm surprised she didn't go kick his a** and then claim female abuse.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Glda you all think the same. Hehe, yeah, beating his ass was never on the cards.

And jumping up and running after him would have been stupid, so I wasn't really left with the option of verbally executing him there and then

He apologised via sms, he's still gonna get an earful next time I visit the group.

And he did get an ass reaming by both her and her friends.

cheers
 

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Originally posted by Brother_Rapp
The way some gals are these days, I'm surprised she didn't go kick his a** and then claim female abuse.
no silly, they save those remarks for the husbands and get an epo

sheesh , what planet are you from?
 

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Yeah, jealousy could be it. Maybe he wanted both of us!!! He did say he had a previous girlfriend that mine reminded him of.
 
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