"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Displaying your body - why hell not?

white sox bill

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I tend to agree with the Muscly Jerk to a point...as a competitive bodybuilder who's competed in AAU(yrs ago) and NPC, a few musings:

*First I don't know the fasination with tight fitting shirts. Sure, they make show some pecs, but I'm much more likely to wear slightly baggy shirts because you look bigger and if you have developed forearms, the short sleeves will accenuate the arms. Many a female have noticed this and come up and squeezed my upper arms. Somewhat baggy is great!

*The only thing close to tight fitting that I wear are XXL's Polo shirts and I have a ton of them. They compliment the physique w/o intentionally showing off

*Sleevless shirts--notta no!

*Theres a difference between tanks and muscle shirts. The latter has less material and are cut lower to show the lats, chest and upper back. Fitting places are bike riding on hot summer days, in the gym or when its just plain hot and your outside. Drawback: Yes some guys will give you the evil eye esp. if their GF/wife is present.

All in all, dress somewhat conservatively but do let them know you have something special under there! Don't act like you are a tool, be respectfull to others and you'l be fine!
Bill
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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mrRuckus said:
That picture made me giggle.

If it made me laugh then i assure you there's a number of people at these places you go to wearing that are laughing.

It really does look gay and i don't just throw the word gay around in everyday conversation.



You shouldn't be questioning "why isn't it okay?!" you should just be accepting it. A woman shouldn't have to be sexually harrassed or gawked at when she wears a really low cut shirt to work but it happens so a smart woman would just not wear that crap instead of complaining about the unfairness of it all, which isn't going to change.


It looks gay when your hips are so fat that they are wider than your shoulders.

I mean tight clothes surrounds your BODY. You might as well say good looking men with great bodies are gay.

In Europe is quite acceptable.

And like I said - why would I care what MEN think? WOMEN freaking love it. I'm not there to pick up men!
 

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Seriously, unless you are playing sport or slobbing at home, dont wear a wifebeater. They look ridiculous, no matter how stacked you are.
 

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if guys are saying, "it's not fair"... then fvck them....

but that's not the reason why you should not wear that 24/7... you look like a tool that's trying to SHOW OFF.

showing off is ridiculous and makes you seem too eager to please and vain and possibly insecure.

but whatever.

if you're getting the action you want, and that's your purpose... who cares?

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I own about 4 of these and I've got the physique to wear them.

http://www.physiquebodywareusa.com/PictureFrame.asp?Sku=719

I've yet have a woman give me the skank eye or have a guy give me a hard time about it. If anything I have to be careful when I wear them out when I shoot video abroad. I was in Panama once doing a party shoot at a crowded club and I was barely able to do my work because I had women hitting me up and guys asking me what my workout regimen was.

As I've always said, a great body is the best Peacocking. If you can pull it off, why not?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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