Dispelling the Myth of the Perpetual Upgrade

[Toddz]

But it isn't this simple because they will cling to their delusional princess sh1t regardless of how you act.

Most of them end up in LTR with guys willing to kiss their a$$ to some extent.

But it is this simple.

Now if she's delusional wanting to be worshipped by her partner then that's her problem, not mine. I will worship her body in the sexual sense to fulfill my own needs and desires, but never her as a person. Codependency and weakness go hand and hand. Men who bend over backwards for their partner toting the "happy wife, happy life" line, ultimately are the ones who end up being destroyed and depressed in the long term. All because they failed to maintain frame and became complacent/lazy. By the time they realize it, it's too late. The concrete has set.

 

[Lordeterra]

I honestly think there's way too much emphasis put on women's quest of the perpetual upgrade in dating, marriage, life, etc.

If the guy turns out to be a loser, geek, irresponsible, addict, gets fat, then ok. And there are some women, but not the majority, who are really f*cked in the head and purposely sabotage relationships. But women in large aren’t pathetically stupid, and as a matter of fact, compared to men they're much smarter when it comes to dating and relationships.

People on this board often forget women know they're the weaker sex and have more to consider and lose when choosing a man. They have a lot to lose by constantly jumping around from guy to guy and they know it. This programming is in their DNA, it’s proven basic biology 101, and they can’t ignore it. No amount of dating apps or OLD sites will undo this evolutionary wiring. At some point, they (most women) do weigh the opportunity cost of continually upgrading and hopping from boyfriend to boyfriend, as is highly promoted on SS, only to start the process all over again.

Many/most women I know hate dating. Most are quite hot or at least very doable. They can't stand the dating scene and hate the whole process. Most are admittedly looking for ONE good guy. Be that guy or MAN, which seem to be in short supply, and you're golden. Women are seen as hypergamous and c*ck carousel riders because most guys are so lame these days. If it happens, it’s by her necessity to ditch the loser and move on. Likely, she gave him ample chances to be a stand up MAN (not pathetic, clueless boy).

Don't think for a moment all women truly enjoy the dating merry-go-round that is today's culture and environment and topic of most SS rants. I'd bet, and my informal poll shows, most don't.

Happy hunting.

~Dash~

i agree. I was too unstable for my previous relationship.