"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dismissed & Burned

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Must see programs for all DJ's on MTV. Really entertaining, and we can see some nice moves, like the kiss timing, when it results, or when it fails.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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cool if the show one of us getting into the show. maybe even more like those reality shows like the bachelorette. it would be fun for a DJ to really get the AFCs dismissed by being cool, calm and collected. all the other AFCs would be 'what am i gonna do?, should i kiss her? i better make good!' wahehehe...
 

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Some of the guys in the program are DJ's and they dont even know what that is. They just know the word "Playa"
 

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Craig from mASF was on Elimidate some time back. He was one of the four guys pitched up vs a Playboy "cybermodel" (her website link below).

http://www.jenniferkorbin.com/

The episode used to be available online. Interesting watch.

He "won", but she was clearly just on the show for publicity.

A seach of the archives at fastseduction.com will bring up some old posts on the topic.
 
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